I had my first kiss ever with a girl that has liked me for months. She just recently broke up with her boyfriend that she has been going out with for like a year. He was gone over the summer and she told me that she thinks she's gunna break up with him for good (they're on/off) She lost her virginity to that guy, but she is indecisive about what she wants (me or him). I do not plan on going out with her- just friends with benefits. My best friend texted her later and we found out that her boyfriend is extremely obsessive and physco. After i had my 8 second first kiss with her i texted her and she didnt text back. shud i give her space to think?

Go kiss 10 other women! Seriously. That's great you've had your first kiss! I definitely wouldn't get hung up on her though. If something more happens, thats great! Otherwise learn from your experience and find the girl you REALLY want to be with.

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Dear Dr. Love,

Hi, my name is Michael, I'm 25 years old and have been in my current relationship for a little over 3 months. My girlfriend is great, I really enjoy being with her and feel that I have much more in common with her than other girls I have dated-- and I feel confident that she feels the same way about me.

But here is the problem. . . we are coming from two very different 'places'. She is 21 and a senior in college, but this age difference has not been a problem for us since she is not a typical college 'party girl' (I don't think I would date her if she was), and she is very mature and down-to-earth in most ways.

However, where the problem lies is that she had just ended a serious relationship (which lasted about 2 and 1/2 years) about a month before we started dating, and prior to that relationship she had dated someone for about a year (I think that there was about 3-6 months between those two relationships). So, even though things have been great with us the past 3 months, she feels that our relationship is getting serious, and has a nagging feeling that she hasn't spent enough time on her own.

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[Go kiss 10 other women! Seriously. That's great you've had your first kiss! I definitely wouldn't get hung up on her though. If something more happens, thats great! Otherwise learn from your experience and find the girl you REALLY want to be with.]

i have struggled with one-itis much in the past. I feel like i need more kissing experience with chicks. my goal is actually to make out with 2 chicks by febuary. all my friends say that this goal is VERY possible

Possible? It's laughable.

February is what 5-6 months away.

In that time you should aim for make outs with 20-25 women, not 2.

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