...guys, Im having some trouble with my female classmate, that Im attracted to...

...so to make this story short,


...Im currently in highschool, so Im not interested in sex...I just want a gf,

...so this girl has been my classmate since 1st year, we used to be friends during 3rd year highschool, cause we were SPAM....we chatted and have a good time,..
I didnt like this girl 'till now,....now that we are seniors, Im starting to like her, and btw she is now one of the young models in our local mall....

....Im not bragging..but I can easily attract girls in our school.., i got a nice status and a great body, as the girls say...

....the problem is, ever since my classmates knew Im attracted to her, they keep teasing us...to the point, that we are avoiding each other.....

....we used to chat on facebook and on school,and I used to have a feeling that she likes me before..

BUT now....I cant even talk to her without someone teasing us.....i cant start a conversation with her cause she keeps on replying with "yes, no, etc."....she changed, she now wont talk straight...

i thought it was because of the teasing and stuff...so I tried to talk to her online...but even on facebook...she has very short replies that I cant start a good conversation.....so it would end up with me frustrated...


.....did she lose interest in me?...Im really frustrated cause of the way she acts and talk....unlike before, we could have been great,

i dont if she is playing "hard to get" just because she is now a model or that she is shy....or maybe even avoiding me

..please...I need help, any advice?

Well it seems like your friends/people that tease you guys have made it really uncomfortable for you two to talk.
She probably feels really awkward and uncomfortable because she is constantly being teased. As a result, she won't talk to you even if she wanted to.. I don't think the model thing has anything to do with it really, most girls don't change much.

I'd suggest freezing the situation out and not talking to her for a while or at least until the teasing stops. If you do talk to her though and people are teasing you, don't budge. Don't give in that you feel uncomfortable.
You feeling uncomfortable = her feeling uncomfortable.
By showing that you are unaffected by the teasing you are demonstrating confidence.

Good luck

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....ok, so...my plan is to stop talking/ ignoring her for about a week??....when all things calm down....and when I try to talk to her, and some of my classmates start teasing, I should act like no one else is around?

...and after that, should I start again?..and start being her friend

OR

..should I continue and try to get her?......this might be harder than before...since the mystery is gone.....she knows I like her because of the teasing and stuff....any advice on a way?

Brilliant.

She wanted you to man up and tell the people that yes, you are attracted to her. So what?

Instead, you let their teasing affect you. And that turned her off. No girl wants to be with a guy who lets people affect him to that extent. It's yours and hers business, why would any other person's actions ever make a difference, is beyond me.

At this point, if it's not dead in the water already, the best thing to do would be to come clean to the classmates that you like her and that it is none of their business what you intend to do with it.

Let it fester, and you're done for. Freeze her out, and you're done for. Do anything else, you're done for.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

Exactly what Don said. Just tell her you like her directly. You're both playing a game of chicken trying to not be the first to seem like they like the other. That's for kids, man. (I'd say that was so Highschool, but... ) Seriously, be the adult.

....wait, Im confused

...so Instead of waiting for a week before talking to her again, I''ll simply talk to her even if my classmates are teasing us and act calmly?

...and how should I tell her I like her??....saying it directly would have an awkward moment between us?....and If I do talk to her would be more awkward if she keeps on saying short replies again (like she always do when I talk to her)??....or should I ask her to talk privately?

Holy even i know this shiit and im 15:
Start talking to an cute girl in front of her to get her feeling a little jelouse.
Then start talking to her building comfort but take her somewhere where your classmates wont see you all and invite her out to eat or to a movie theatre.
Then if you feel comfortable ask her out.

BTW tell her something like "its pretty stupid of them to be saying we like each other cuz ur a nice girl but not my type (false disqualifier)"

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I agree with Draper and Prince here, but I don't like the "tell her" part. SHOW HER. Touch her and talk to her!

If someone gives you shit, laugh derisively and say "Oh so Im the only one here with a dick?" and move on. Even "Yeah cool dude" and moving on is alright. If you can't handle your classmates, you don't have a chance with this girl, end of story.

...well, I guess action speaks louder than words....but think Im not going to far into touching her, I'll just talk to her.....

...but I got this problem, she usually stick with her group of friends (about 3 of them)...I cant just approach her, to talk to her...or else the teasing starts again....how do I separate her?..to approach her,

...and what do I do if she still replies with 1 words/ short replies (yes, no, yup...)???

Just stop being a coward.

If she's with her friends, so what?

Take her by the elbow lightly while saying, "Hey, I need to talk to you about something." and be in a positive frame of mind. Don't be frisky and creepy. Give her a warm smile and to her friends as well. You need to look like a confident man who knows what he is going to do.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

....I was about to ask, what if she said NO...But I remembered, I should not fear rejection...

....So I'll ask, what if she said yes and we talked..........but she still give short replies or one word........should I end the conversation?? or continue trying the have a good conversation???

....and should I tell her I like her, earlier?...or delay it till we get close enough and Im 100% sure she likes me back??

Just man up and do it! Go ahead and tell her you like her. Don't get gushy and make it look like you love her or she's the only girl you want, because you don't and she's not. So don't try to manipulate her like that. Just make it a matter of fact statement, as it's no big deal. You're simply attracted to her, and she should be attracted to you too, because you're worth it.

If she's giving one word answers at school in front of her friends and such, that's understandable. Most HS kids have this fear of people knowing they like someone, though I'll never know why. Keep talking ad set up a date. I can practically guarantee that she'll be much more open to you when its just the two of you out there.

(Just for my own edification, what's with the consistent "...."? Is that a new HS thing or are you just a little insecure about your posts? If it's insecurity (which I see you have a little of anyways), you need to work on some confidence boosters and inner game stuff. Don't worry about it. Everyone starts with insecurity. I myself had a lot of insecurity before practicing PU. Go out to a mall or something and just get blown out by a ton of girls, so that you realize that it doesn't matter what people think of you. Good luck!)

Like pretty much everyone mentioned so before.
Man the hell up dude, If there's one thing i've learnt is that confidence is key to attraction, If you show the guys that tease you that they are affecting you and putting you into an uncomfortable situation, she'll be like.. Wow, this guy cant even stand up for himself (Biggest DLV if u ask me).
I'd just wait for things to cool down a bit, ignore her, but if she's around, show a little bit of confidence if the time is there. Laughing with mates, cracking some jokes, be the attention of the group, this'll make her think like. Wow, he's not as bad as i thought.
then when she starts being interested in you again, you can pick up the thread and continue from there. Be honest this time, and if people do tease you like, ohohoh, he likes her, and be like: Yeh, I actually do, is that a problem or is it jealousy that's keeping you busy? She'll melt, trust me!

All in all,

Whatever you do, make sure you do it with confidence.

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Life is short, make the best out of it!

...oh, its sort of my style in writing.

...its because Im more into talking than writing...so everytime I write something, I put "..." to indicate a pause, the same way as talking.

...I'd like to thank you guys!! , It hit me in the face, and realized I just need to man up,

UPDATE:

so, here is an update on my progress.

-Im no longer affected by the teasing,
-I dont care if she likes me back
-We spend more time chattingl, together with a group of friends
-she already know that I like her and Its not a big deal to me when my classmates teased us and I answered back...

AND -we now chat on facebook, and have a good conversation...she no longer replies with one word/short replies..


Current Problem:

- she still try to ignore me when talking to her personally, and when I asked her (on facebook) she said its because of our classmates...(which is exactly what you told me)


....so where do I go from here?