Hey, guys.

Just wondering what times and how you would use kino?

I've used kino touching the elbow during conversations or goodbyes and have gotten responses by touching my elbow back (a good case of mirroring).

When I open I always gently touch the top of her arm and tend to do it a lot when I talk. When I ask her to sit instead of talk I place my arm around her straight away, I find it's easier for me this way it's more subtle. I just feel weird about doing it any other time to be honest... I tend to use most of Gambler's tips for kino escalation after I've sat myself with a girl. Personally I find it mega hard while standing, everything feels forced and awkward.

Another thing I've found is that if you have danced with a random girl, then you can easily approach her later on and start kino at a much higher level right from the off. You've already had that closeness on the dancefloor and can escalate faster.

I stand as close to a girl as I can, to specifically avoid the awkwardness. If you're only a few inches away, then any sort of touch will feel natural, rather than forced. You shouldn't have to be having to reach out to touch her. If you think it's awkward to stand close, it's not, really, but it can be awkward getting to that place in the first case. Try pointing something out far away, and leaning in so your faces are nearly touching, and you can "see where you're pointing from her perspective".

Any sort of higher escalation kino works well too. Don't just touch the "safe" areas. Be daring, and risk a little, making it seem like it may or may not have been an accident. A good place I've found is the stomach area, either in the front or he sides, as they are very sensitive and great for tickling. The first time it should be an "accident", then when you notice her reaction, play it up, and kid around with it, and use the "tickling" often, and even out of the blue, since now it's an ok zone. Turns her on like nothing else!

Awesome advice man! I'll keep all that in mind.