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How can you reverse the roll in order for the girl to chase you? Meaning when you get her number from the bar she obviously knows that you're trying to meet with her soon and that you liked her enough to get her number. My question is how does the challenge part happen if you have to hit her up in order to hang out? and how does that not display a bunch of interest if you have to hit her up most of the time to hang out if you want it to become sexual?
This has been discussed ad- nauseum in here. Just for a synopsis: Live your life, meet up and/or talk when you can. End of story. And 'too cool for school' all the time gets old and won't get you laid. You have to show some interest, otherwise you're just a limp dick AFC that's wayyyy too laid back.
Do a quick search and you'll find dozens of threads about this.