| OK, long story.
I've known this girl about a month, her best friend goes out with one of my best friends.
So we've been bumping into each other for a bit, then one night she starts saying i'm hot and stuff (she was a bit drunk). That same night she texts me she likes me, I know i should of suggested we dated then but i didnt, so we bump into each other a few more times but then she stops texting for some reason.
So I start texting her cocky playful stuff which she responsed to a bit, then we bump into each other again on a night out with her best friend and mine, anyway, they go home and I'm left with her most the night, we talk all night, i give her a ride home, we have a bit of a kiss then I ask her out which she is happy with.
Next day we were gonna go the same place again because mutual friends asked us too but decide against it so she asks if i want to come round hers just to hang.
So i spend the night round hers, nothings happens cause it wasnt like that, spend most the next day round hers too then head home.
This was a sunday, we arrange to go cinema on the friday aswell. During the week she texts if I'm coming pub and stuff, go pub on the wednesday with a bunch of friends, we go our separate ways at the end of the night and my friend tells her i stormed off for some reason, dont know why.
Dont speak to her on the thursday, text her on the friday about the cinema and she dosnt respond, finally got her to responde, bump into her in the pub and we clear things up (she thought i had the hump with her or something) and she asks what i'm doing tommorow.
She texts me in the afternoon if we are meeting up for cinema, i say yea what time, she says about 7 I say how about 5, she doesnt respond for hours and says she fell asleep, then says there nothing on at the cinema so I suggest to chill round mine and watch some films which she agress to at first then says she's been having mood swings and been getting depressed all day and suggests she stays home.
She sounded sincere in her texts so I beleive her on that front, I send a playful text saying if she ever needs to talk, i'm here but charge 50 quid an hour, she says thats a little to much but can pay me in kind , then a few flirty texts back and fourth pretty much about how much we like to sleep with each other, then I suggest we can still meet up and can pick her up half way, she says will let me know after she's had a bath, then says the weathers bad and decides to stay in, she does live quite a while away and would have to get a 30-40 min bus to meet me half way.
We text for most the night, then she texts me the next day sunday asking what i've been up too and we text most the night again.
Funny thing is i've been asking when we are gonna hang again during the texts and she will ignore it and text something completely different and some texts are 1 word responses. I've just text her today asking if she's going to the pub and she sends 2 words back (doubt it). I ask if everythings ok, she says yeah. (1 word)
She is doing my head in and I just dont know where I stand with her. The things i've said to her in person, i've not been clingy or needy and I tease her a bit which she responds too.
I'm thinking of sending a text pretty much asking where I stand with her and that sometimes she's keen and othertimes she sends one word responses.
Am I beeing clingy? help please
How is it best to proceed?
sorry for the long message
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