How do I get my ex gf back?? Shes with another guy and just went FB official yesterday. I went out with her for 6 months and were madly in love. Until I broke up with her on the last day of school
I texted her yesterday:

Me:

Hey,
I want you to know some things. You were such and amazing gf. You were always there for me whenever I needed someone, and our love was so strong! I ruined something amazing because of something I still havent told you :'( I miss you so much and wish we could be back together. You can choose to ignore this text or respond. I have had one of the worst summers of my entire life.

Her: I DID love you, and I always wondered what it was that you wouldn't tell me. But that doesnt matter now because I have moved on.

what do I respond.... I gotta get her back

Respect her wishes.

Don't ruin the positive image she has of you in her mind, there is a reason why she said that.

We can't get every girl back. No matter how amazing a time we spent with them.

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I don't know dude, this sounds all kind of nutty to me. If she was an amazing GF and you were madly in love, why did you dump her? What were your unspoken reasons?

From her standpoint I don't know if your reason even matters. You dumped her. Her moving on was the right thing to do on her part.

IF she were to post on this or anything other forum and say that her BF dumped her the last day of school after going out for 6 months and being "madly in love" and she asked what she should do, my advice to her would be to MOVE ON.

She's done that and she had every right in the world to do and now you want her back because you changed your mind?????

From the info you have given so far I side with her and agree with her moving on and telling you that she doesn't want back together. Why should she stick her neck out to take you back when you dumped her out of the blue for no reason?

move on dude, once you break up you never get back, you will end up breaking up for the same reason you broke up in the first place. CUT ALL CONTACT, delete her number, delete facebook, myspace etc... Her and her friends, block her too. move on..

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i know exactly where you are coming from...

i broke up with my ex about a month ago, mainly because i was insecure...
anyway we stayed close after the breakup and even had sex a few times but after a weekend out with her friends she told me she couldnt be close with me any more and we had to stop having sex.
so i have been playing the game from the start. hardly messaging her even though i told her i would, acting likie i am busy and have better things to do then hang out with her but at the same time being playful flirty and when we do hang out i make sure she has more fun with me than she has had in a long time. that way when im gone she will miss me, and think about me.

it was about two weeks ago she said we should stop having sex. and only now is it getting to a point where she is initiating txts/asking me to hang with her etc but she is being really flirty and giving alot of attention.

so my advice is if you want her back you have to do it the same way you got her in the first place, dont rely on feelings or memories to carry you through. be a pua.

its working for me. oh and for everyone out there who are about to write "safety dont use this girl" im not. i want bher back for real.

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If you want her back, cut off ALL communication with her. This will cause her to think about you, and wanting to initiate the convo with you. This may take up to days, weeks, or even months for her to initiate. But while you freeze her out, start gaming other chicks as well.

Be better than the guy she's with, show her the fun times you guys use to have.

Or you can use a boyfriend destroyer