So I took this girl out twice and kissed her on the first date. You know, "do you want to kiss me?" and she did.

Anyway, we went to a museum on the 2nd date and it was fun. We played around there, grabbed dinner and made plans for dinner and drinks at my apartment on Saturday. We walked around a park, took pictures and made out.

Saturday rolls around and around noontime she texts to cancel, saying that she has other things she has to go to. Obviously, she decided she wasn't up for going to my apartment. So, I asked her what she was up to instead of dinner with me.

I think I acted needy (AFC all over), and want a way to recover with this girl. How can I get her over or recover the rapport, and get to better escalation/f-close?

act like your asking because you're curious about her day to day activities (obviously need to phrase it beter like her: i'm just doing blah blah you: oh that's straight/cool/chill (keep it consistent with how you talk) we'lljust have to get a raincheck. so i was doing blah blah (talk about your day or what you would regularly talk about in a text convo) you're not asking because you care that she bailed. you're asking because it's a normal question to ask (the stronger frame wins so just frame your convo like that and she won't see it as you being needy)


in short: no matter her response, say cool and change sunject