Gonna try to put all my issues on the table here.

To start, I am a virgin. I’ve made it a point this summer to try to go out with women. I just graduated from college and spent virtually all my time studying or working on my businesses. I meet a lot of women, and when I’m not with them I definitely know I want to fuck them. I have gone on some dates and met a lot of women in clubs/bars, but I’m scared to take it to the next level (the fucking level to be blunt).

A close (girl) friend of mine just told me to get it over with. As part of me trying to talk to more women, I haven’t masturbated in weeks and feel like I’m going to last under 5 seconds when I get with a girl.

There are two girls right now that I’m pretty sure I could fuck this weekend. I’m just afraid of what might happen both during the act and afterwards. I mean a lot of bad things can happen – pregnancy, STDS, or worse of all a relationship.

What do you guys think? I might just need someone to tell me to man the fuck up.

Go for it.

I helped my friend lose his virginity at the weekend and he'd pussied out before. Unsurprisingly he enjoyed himself. This guy, to be blunt isn't great with girls and not only did the girl enjoy it but he escaped a relationship too.

Your life is what you make of it.

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I've got 99 problems but...

Man the fuck up.

Haha. Just kidding.

Use a condom. Done. Seriously, that is so important these days, and most guys simply say "I don't need it." I don't care if she says she's a virgin, she's on the pill, or whatever. Use a condom. First two problems solved.

As for a relationship, just be upfront that you're looking to have fun, not a relationship. Imagine yourself as James Bond, or someone who is not a virgin and has sex all the time when you tell them about just wanting to have fun, and it will come out as unneedy and natural. If after all that, she still wants a relationship, or somehow thinks you're magically in one because you had sex, that's ow her problem, as long as you didn't lead her to think that because of what you said...

Good luck. This was the hardest hurdle for me, so understand where you're coming from.

Practice your control to make you not last "5 seconds". it'll make it more special for you and not feeling like a laughing stalk. not to mention more pleasure for both.