one day she txts me non stop.

the next day she tells me she is too sick to hang out.

then the next day she takes me to the beach, tells me i smell good and feels my arms saying they got bigger.

now she hasnt msgd me in about 9 hours.

wtf!?

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yes some girls get an almost sexual thrill from rejecting guys or messing with their heads...they get such an ego boost from this that they prefer it to sex....but they are weirdos to be dropped like hot potatos

Just play it easy.
Game other girls at the same time; let her know you're not falling for her games (if she is playing any, she could just be genuinely busy).

What i've learnt is that you have to take a step back from the situation and evaluate it logically.

Back off a bit, give her time to miss you.
Obviously she's giving you IoI's, you can't really escalate anything over text.
My best advice to you is (based on what you've given me on your situation) is to play is casual, try not on your part talk to her much over text keep busy doing work, school, exercising what ever.
Get a meet up, and escalate that way.
You can't fuck a phone number, neither a text message.
Actions always speak louder than words.
One last point I have to make is:
Guys are expected to initiate, why do you think girls dress the way they do?
TO ATTRACT ATTENTION!
You call the shots; let her know that.
My opinion anyway.
Hope this helps!
Seren.

this is a good question, with good advice so far.

definitely play it easy/casual. some girls like to drive men wild and play with them for sure (also consider it a test, sometimes they wonder if you are actually a crazy stalker-type or not). if you keep it cool, she will realize that you are solid. so be that guy for her, because its who you are anyway.

9 hrs don't seem like a long time but it my be a shit test this happened to me for a while to and it may work just to ignore the urge to call her few days before contacting with her again it shows that she isn't the center of your concerns demonstrate you can have fun without her .than it could be something completely different

an alpha male wouldn't care if a girl stops talking for a while and as long as you have that attraction shell be back game other girls if your not in a relationship

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yea, thanks guys serenity what u said about guys ar supposed to intiate.. i like that, still not going to do it though hah

i have a really busy weekend and i know she is just working all weekend so im just going to act like i dont need her, and organise something next week. so when shes bored shitless all she will be able to do is imagine the fun im having...

then i will talk to her next week.

thanks guys

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