Freinds:

We fucked a few times, then she dissapeared for months, been talking for past few weeks but she dont show up to fuck. So frustrated n trying not to show.

This convo is still going on, but so far who has the higher status? Is it rude what I said? Obvious Im frustrated? Or dont give a fuck attitude?

First I typed:



Cheers

Too frustrated, just like a kid throwing tantrum because he doesn't get what he want. She definitely has higher status at this point. Despite the choice of words you used, the message still reeks of frustration and neediness. And at the end you don't even sure about EVERYTHING you just said "I guess ..."
IMO, this is a reply an alpha who doesn't care since he GOT GIRLS around him would say:
"Cool. We'll see !"
That's it, and if she doesn't txt you to get together, who cares, you GOT GIRLs around you remember. Just simple say "NEXT", no need to busting her balls about it, you HAD fun. If she doesn't up for it anymore, then that's that. MOVE ON.

I hear ya but sometimes,, no ALWAYS women do not have any idea what/how to do! Reminding them in a polite way, that she is fucked up, helps..

Ugh, that was brutal...

Dude, - "you got boys around you, I got chicks around me?" at this point you handed everything over on a silver platter..

Do not refer to "how good you are with girls" EVER.. it makes you look like an insecure Phaggot.

I mean, if you were an .. ugh I hate the term Alpha, but I will use it.. Alpha Male.. you wouldn't even need to mention it.

I have a girlfriend, she knows, thats not very fagety.

Wait, what? I thought you're trying to game this broad?.. you got a gf? Don't be a douche bag.


EDIT.. Assume your just asking for interests sake.. Consider this tho.. regardless of her knowing that you have a gf or not the sheer fact that you feel you should mention that you have "girls around you" seems lame.

If you ever resort to "status pumping" through pointing out things which are supposed to impress.. your probably losing your value quick.

I agree, but this isn't a situation to call for it. She did nothing WRONG here, it's not like she PROMISE to come over for a fuck, and never SHOW UP. Now that is when you need to bust her ass, and set the ground rules. But in this case, you get frustrated because she isn't interested in having sex ANYMORE? Don't put all the blame on the girl.
And FYI, if you want to tell her what to do, you don't have type a whole paragraph about it, Just simply a command : "Look I know we both enjoy our sex, and I WANT you to come over and suck my cock" - THAT is the right way to do it.

Probably I should have explained more before I post this. 2months ago she came over fucked me and nagged 1 hour how she is not intrested to her man anymore and its over. She said we will go out and make new terms and I have to make it clear what Im doing with my woman. Since then she disappeared and started flaking, we did have sort of an agreement.
I disagree with the cock part in a message!

This makes more sense now.. But agreement or not.. it goes as far as any one particular party wants it to.

you cant expect a flaky girl who is screwing you but concerned over her original "man" to give 2 shits about whether she sees you regularly or not. Let em go, cos if they are flaking it's because you did something wrong/they lost interest/they feel something different/saw a shiny object and got distracted - you'll waste soo much time convincing in the end it never yields the results you want.

The one who cares the least, has the most power.. you care more because you're calling her out.

Best thing you've said all ur life!

I will send you a picture of her right nipple when I re-close her.