I've been talking to this gal for about 3 months now. We go out every now and then and she's been over to my house a few times. We kiss a lot but I haven't gotten past 2nd base yet. (tear)

Facts about her:
-She has a mean ex-boyfriend that makes her feel bad about herself
-Her family situation is kinda rocky
-She's about to go to college, I'm still in HS

She has a few problems but is otherwise a really sweet girl and is pretty down to earth. Plus she's about a 9. Doesn't hurt.

She really likes me, tells me how charming I am and always talks about meeting her mom, etc. But she's somewhat distant. We'll be texting and she'll quit texting me randomly at times. She'll also go from really lively and happy to short and sad sometimes (which I respond to correctly, ending the convo. Don't wanna be a part of her bad feelings) I let the girls initiate text convos, don't invest too much) but I'm used to girls that like me be dying to text me and hang out all of the time.

I'm pretty sure the reason behind all of this is that she has other guys on the side right now. I see them commenting on her sh#t on Fbook and stuff. This doesn't upset me, I've currently got another option I'm actually about to go hang out with. But she's an ex LTR and that's something I don't see going anywhere immediately.

Basically I really like this girl and would like to make her my girlfriend. But how do I do this? Keep in mind that she's in all likelihood talking to other people, and I don't wanna be the one with the most to lose.

Any help is appreciated.

number one rule make sure you do not fall into the freind zone or your choped and screwed

first take her some where casual but don't imply that this is a date it dosent have to be a restaurant and make sure to keep a dominant role. pour on the kino and stack DHV and push pull seduction in your conversation leave before the situation gets boring (better of being at a point of climax in excitement so its not like the other dates she outings shes been on so the fun is fresh in her mind)

methood1: uses if u have at least moderate phone game
next 2-3 days call her and ask her if single after talking some and when she says yes say oh i thoght you said you were dating that awesome (describe yourself) guy wernt you ?( said playfully) go on from there

methood 2: take her to another place again have fun and say we get along well we should go out (said playfully) how bout it? or whatever fits this while being you






make sure your kino is up to par