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I'm new to this.. College bars/pubs just aren't usually my thing.
There is your issue. It sounds like general social anxiety. You have to start acclimating yourself. Just start opening people at the gas station, or the grocery store, then gradually socialize yourself. This is also from a fear of rejection. And to make matters worse a fear of rejection in front of a large group of people.
I (along with anyone else doing this) have the same hang ups. Approaching and escalating can be scary to be quite frank. It's intimidating. Your heart pounds, your palms get sweaty, you have that sense of dread in the pit of your stomach. It happens. What helped me (aside from the above) is at
first just view it all as practice. Not serious. Also, remember your life won't be any different from meeting these women. You will probably never see them again, and if you do, it will be in a much better position.
Take a step back, calm your breathing, relax, try to have fun. Remember they're just practice until you get the hang of it. If you pretend to have fun long enough, you might actually start having it for real. If you do it enough, it'll just be instinct and that is where natural game comes from. You're a predator, you were just never taught how to use your teeth.
Keep in mind!!!!! There are tendencies among PUA to dehumanize or degrade these women. You are talking to someones daughter, and she is just as insecure and scared (if not more so) than you. No better, no worse.
Start by getting an opener (I just posted a good one in routines btw) and make a commitment to open at least 5 girls a day. That's it. If other opportunities present themselves, go along, but for two weeks you should just be focused on opening, then, try A phases, then C, then finally S.
With kino escalation, you'll have an idea if you and her are ready for it, just do it gradually. Tap on shoulder, arm around shoulder, playful punch, hug, touching her face, then you can kiss her. Always look for IOI's.