hi
I have 2 questions.

1. When negging, do you say it seriously, or do you make it obvious that you are only joking? for example, "I wasn't talking to you, so don't interrupt when 2 people are talking. I'm just kidding!" or "I wasn't talking to you, so don't interrupt when 2 people are talking. [serious face]"
which one?

2. every time I think about negging, I am afraid of hurting the girl's feelings. I mean it's not right to be mean to someone. you are not concerned about this?

1. Neither of those is a neg, so there is no right answer with your example. A neg isn't an insult, its a negative complement. It's like saying "you're so cute, it's a shame you're not my type." You say something nice, then add something on that leaves a negative tone to it. She can't get mad because at the end of the day you were complementing her. Insults are not negs. That being said, a real neg should be said candidly. It's different from a joke.

2. If you get a better understanding of what negging is, then there's no way to hurt their feelings.

When you neg, you don't wait for response. Neg, and stack right away to another thread.

Also, negs need to be calibrated. If you open a set, the girl is already into you, you don't need to neg her.

You only use Neg "Negative Comment" when the girl has a huge ego and all men praise her.. Unfortunately it will make you seem that you are different and not make you seem like a suitor!







-TheNaturalPlayboy

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Sometimes when i'm with my chick on the low, I'm a flirt.

It is the situation. If the girl has her bitch shield up I am almost rude about it.

Last night I was in field and there was a 9 surrounded by 7's I approached and chatted to the least attractive one. Miss 9 assumed I simply hadn't noticed her straight away and started pushing her cleaveage together to show off a badge that she had got from a train guard get my attention, she even said to me "HEY! Look at this badge" and pushed her (very nice) tittys together. I looked at it and said "im trying to talk to your friend" then said to her friend "is she always like this?"

Miss 9 tried to brush off this and played me at my own game, ignoring me. This went on for about 3 minutes, then she put her legs on the table and crossed them right in front of me, clearly awaiting a response. And this is my neg - "Excuse me - you have very nice legs but it's rude to put them on the table. I will speak to you later but right now your friend is much more fun"

Don't neg girls, problem solved. For clarification, see my other numerous post.

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