so i was getting coffee this morning and this hb7 working there was totally eyeing me up. i smiled back, lingered with the eye contact to show intrest, even saw her again one my second coffee break. i live in a small town so everyone knows everyone. i was bored tonight and decided to go against better judgment and take a shot, i msgd her on fb heres the convo thus far..

me: I think ive seen you somewhere before.. hmm, oh yea! you were checking me out at Tim Hortons today wernt you lol

her: yeah, i may or may not have been.. but deffinitely was checking you out today, you caught me lol

me: way to make me feel like a piece of meat , girls these days lol

her: well what can i sayy, your just so handsome

me: well i would be lying if I said I didnt sneak a peak either, I guess im just as guilty haha

her: why thank ya but i can't blame you, have you seen my uniform ? so hot

me: dont even get me started on those uniforms, they just exude sexy lol so are you going to add me as a friend or not.

i really dont know what to say next or even what to do in general. txt/msg game has never been my strong suit. any direction or examples would be greatly appreciated and if closed then a full lay report will be in order. ( i can tell shes hiding a freaky side, very strange skill haha)

Great.

Firstly, you should've put her a little down. Not agreed with her.

"Uniforms are sexy. I've not made my mind up about you though. "

Then, the second strike was your reply in which you basically begged her to "add you as a friend". A friend? Really? That woman gave you the power to dominate her by admitting your effect on her and you give that back to her on a platter?

"So, is the uniform all there is to you? Or you like to let your hair down sometimes too." (Say the last line like a statement. Not a question.)

Well, start wearing the pants in this relationship, if it has to go anywhere.

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thank you, thats exactly what im looking to do. is it always acceptable to throw in a little neg or have i passed that point? i like the open ended SPAM about letting her hair down. so now should i wait for her to chat me up again? or should i fire first again with somthing?

It's still early, negging is a must here IMO to set your role as the dominant one and hers as the submissive one. I'd start getting sexual too by throwing some innuendoes in there now that you've established attraction.

edited to fix "begging" to "negging"

hey so by begging you mean getting her to beg to me right? how would i go about setting that up? also maybe an example a few innuendos would be great too, i dont want to come off creepy or anything right

Sorry i meant NEGGING. It's this new Apple Lion OS, auto fixes typos and didn't recognize Negging.

haha i hear yea man, ive been doing a bit of messing around with an os im building off of ubuntu. having a hard time check spell, anyway to the topic, i had her think she was lucky for me tossing her my # so shel be txting me soon. and il throw in some playful negs. good news, i tested the waters by asking how random she would describe herself, and she said "lets hangout?" lol that went well, its almost not as fun when theres no effort to put it. but im not complaining. thanks for the words guys!

ps. having a hard time coming up with good txt negs haha

ok so heres the update. i think its going well. but i wouldnt mind a second eye. this is still fb chat and she had mentioned just prior that she wants to hang out.

me: (10am) hey dork, what the heck are you doing today?

her: well not much actually, the only reallyyyy exciting thing in my life right now is that im going to get my hair did and im also pretty excited to get my second tattoo. other then that boring. what about you??

me: I'm just trying to find a time to book my tattoo. I think I'm going to take u along to hold my hand

her: ya thats probably a good idea im pretty comforting. what are you thinking of getting?

me: bla blA bla

her: thats sweet!!

me: yours?

her: bla bla bla

me: thats cool, tattoos on girls are very sexy, not gunna lie.

her :yess as they are on guys

me: Well then were both going to be way sexier soon eh.

her:thats what im thinking yaa

(lots of winks on her part)( we have a good joking vibe so i threw in)

me: My my arnt u the flirty one.
Your boyfriend must not be spanking you enough haha.

her: ya prettyyy much i don't have one of those

me:Well then you definatly are not getting spanked enough

her: probably because i have noone to spank me

me: Now that's a shame, lol where do I sign up. :0

her: it is indeed, no need to sign up

me: Good to know. well dork I have to actually work for a bit now! Haha Later *SMACK!* on da butt.

her: what a supprise, i actually have to do that same ttyl ya weiner

IMO it seems to be going great. You're running really solid game here. Playful conversation, lots of flirting, ended on a high note etc etc. I would just set a time to hang with her ASAP. Closer the the evening/night time so you don't have to entertain her all day and it will keep you from running out of things to say. Sound like an easy Fclose from what I can tell. Go get 'em cowboy!

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you were right, she suggested a movie night haha. a good scary one. i said she better be a cuddler, and shes like yeah , il follow up , thx for the advices fellas

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