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| AFC asianboy | PostPosted: Tue Aug 02, 2011 7:18 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun May 22, 2011 4:59 pm Posts: 22 Yahoo Messenger: caarefree41@yahoo.com Location: belgium | | First of all i just wanted to say thanks to anyone who open this.
my personal information
i am good looking asian
age : 18
started PU three months ago
book : mystery method . art of approaching. sixty years of challenge and juggler still reading )
So here is my story:
I started practicing PU like three months ago and i have been working hard almost everyday, since i am a shy guy to start with i had lots of approach anxiety but i work hard and i got over it, i mean i still feel little bit approach anxiety like everyone so my problem is with transitioning every time i open some girls they are all friendly since i open them with right body language but then i can,t go any further may be its because my opener is indirect but if i use direct then their will be problem because most of the girls walk in group and direct might not be a good idea and since i am shy to begin with i am not that confident when i use direct.
sometime before when i approach i think of something say that leads to transitioning but once i approach and start talking, i cant say it, lots of negative though start coming like its gonna be weird, you are asian, you look like tourist, they are out of your league.
so what i wanna know is how to do transitioning in indirect game
and help with all those negative thought ?
here is one of my approach
Me: hey (smiling and loud enough)
HB : Do you guys speak english or dutch? (i have to ask them that since i live in belgium and we speak here french and dutch but i speak only dutch and only little french)
HB: yes
Me: Do you guys know any gift shop around here ?
HB: yeah their is one around this street
ME: no i am not talking about that one i am looking for the other one(i just say it just to make conversation longer)
HB: we don,t know
ME: ah you guys are not not from brussel are you ?
HB: yeah we are.
ME: How come you don,t know this place its famous
HB: ................
ME: u guys look like tourist
HB: haheheh
ME: OK Thanks anyway
thanks again for reading until finished
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| charblad | PostPosted: Tue Aug 02, 2011 7:30 pm | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Thu May 26, 2011 3:12 am Posts: 733 Location: Earth of course | | In my opinion I dont know why anyone came up with the "where is this store" routine. I think its the worst one out there... and I never use it
First come up with a different opener, then the next step is learnin kino escalation.
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| 0uch | PostPosted: Wed Aug 03, 2011 3:35 am | |
Joined: Sat Oct 02, 2010 8:36 pm Posts: 1253 | | Going indirect during day game is no good. People usually have a objective to get to point a to point b. Your better off going direct, get the number and leave. You have gotten over AA, now is time to get over rejection. Is either your gonna get rejected, or get the number. No in between. Indirect, your not getting rejected, or getting numbers. Also, bitch shield is way down during day game, so it's better to go direct.
Going indirect during day would be good if your somewhere like the bus stop waiting for the bus. Your gonna be there for awhile.
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| einherjar22 | PostPosted: Wed Aug 03, 2011 5:15 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Aug 01, 2011 3:09 pm Posts: 10 Yahoo Messenger: tstouffis@yahoo.com | | ^^ ouch is right. you must go direct it is difficult i understand but like he said you must get over the rejection part of the game the more comfortable you get with it the less it will phase you as a person. then soon enough direct game will become so second nature to you that you will be subconsciously doing transitions. _________________ recon
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