Hi!

So, I've been dating this really hot girl for 3 weeks now, things are going great, and i actually want a relationship with this one. She's the first girl in 3 yr i've actually wanted for more than casual dating/sex. So, I want this to work.

The problem is, she is moving away for at least 3 months, maybe as much as 9-10 months. We've dated for 3 now, and are both really into it, but she's moving away a week from today. We're not officially a couple, although all of our friends thinks so. The thing is, we've decided not to act as a couple while she's away.

What I want is to keep this girl warm while she's away. What is the best way to keep this girl warm?


//alex

in my opinion, there is no way after 9-10 months that you will still be her #1. if you have the money, fly out to where she is staying every now and then if thats cool with her.

if you can't fly out to see her, whats the point of dwelling on this chick. just say hi how was your day every once in a while and go on with life.

i understand you are into her, and she may seem special to you, but from an outsider's perspective, like i said 9-10 months? thats a long time for anyone, even a happily married couple. so as far as keeping her warm? yea, its a little farfetched but good luck nonetheless

or option #2 you could always make some babies with her that might keep her around lol

9 months is a long time, but it could be as little as three. As i said, we've agreed not to officially be in a relationship, so what i want i actually to keep attraction levels up, so when shes back, we can hopefully get back to where we are now.