Basicaly i have one chick that is very conservative she attempts to hide the fact that she wants me. She keeps initiating contact and meet ups. Even though its obvious shes just playing hard to get i still have to navigate through all her own psychological barriers. She attempts to make me go through so many hoops "if you hold my purse for me maybe i'll promote you to hold something else (implying shell let me hold her), i dont ever cave but the entire back and forth thing is tiring. We already had a date with extremely close contact lots of kino then tried for a kiss close but she avoided. I dismissed it and had a recent date she initiated again (we were supposed to meet this weekend but she called me and said "shes bored" which is her code for i want to see you) where we went to a park. She brought a book called "the end of dating" and read like 3 pages worth of material. I just showed her im getting bored and she tries to reel me back in with staring contests. At this point im seriously getting pissed and she knows it shes starts being sweet and all that shit, but once i do warm up again shes gonna give me the hard to get SPAM again. Shes religious to add to that. Not sure if i should could cotinue this.

Before her i was feeling very good after a heavy flirt session with another girl im gonna meet today and after our very "challenging" date yesterday she just totally ruined my mood and even now i still feel shitty. What do you guys think? Continue this for the challenge or is it not worth it?

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I'm putting this out there, it may not be true for this girl but know this.
Some girls like to play, they choose a guy and play with him to see how much she can get him to chase her. I've had this happen to me sadly...
For some reason religion doesn't seem to stop many girls from doing what they want, they like to pick and choose what they want to believe and still think the end result will be the same.
Freeze her and see if she keeps pullin you, if she stops tryin after 2 days then you know shes just playing with you, if she keeps tryin a lil bit then keep gaming

not worth it.. at all (unless you want to marry a chick that is very clingy). The good thing about these girls is that you know they won't cheat on you. However, conservative chicks are capable of being corrupted (I turned one of these chicks into a total whore). I choose to stay away from the very religious/conservative girls, but that's just me.

Ive frozen her already, even mini freeze ups and she keeps reeling me back in. You are right though. Im thinkig of making a major freeze up after this disappointing date with her. I wanted to see if she would somehow put down some of her "bitch sheild" based on the fact that she seems to want to be in a solo spot where i could escalate. I tested her if we should just go to the movies, but she said she prefer he park so that confirmed she did want to escalate. But once we did Get there, we had a mild flirtations with the bread i fed her (some bj inuendos) I liked that interaction with her. Then it went south when she started reading from that dating book. I was seriously projecting for more kino and flirting than we did.

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Like I said if you freeze her for 2 days and any time after that she txts you you should be fine, but its not 100% mind you.
BTW the park compared to the movies is kinda worse, park is where you go if your on a uncomfortable first date because its public and bright with little risk. The movies is dark and a good spot for kino, higher risk but more excuses to go.

What was she reading from the dating book? I mean, what was it she was trying to communicate to you?

From my experience and what you've said so far, it seems that this girl is probably looking for a committed relationship. I'm not saying she has to get married, but she's looking for some type of boyfriend/girlfriend agreement. Knowing that, you'll have to decide whether or not you are willing to give that to her. I was in a situation like this once, and I decided that I liked her enough in other ways that I would try letting her be my girlfriend for a while, and I wasn't disappointed. She definitely turned from cold to hot very quickly! And she was a good girlfriend too, for as long as it lasted. May or may not be the case with this girl.

I would test it a little by using LMR tests to bring down her ASD, which is what I feel this girl has a lot of. Try setting up another date in the near future with this girl while on a date, possibly something big or romantic, then try escalating. If you're getting further, then she's definitely looking for a boyfriend, and won't give you anything until that happens. If she's not letting you do anything further, then she's probably just reinforcing her bitch shield with rebarb, and there's little chance of anything serious happening. With that knowledge, judge if you think she's worth the effort.

"the end of dating." ive heard of it. Its about anchicks says goodbye to casual sex, and reserves it for marriage. It seems like sges trying to change me. I told her before im not lookong for anything serious currently, yet she still keeps seeing me.

Its either she wants to get an excuse to do something "bad" or that shes thinkig she could change me.

Ill give her one last try after this freeze out. As for the parks, our last heavy kino was at a park and we were pretty much alone. The fact that she want to go to a park again means shes anticipating heavy kino again.It would make sense that if a person disnt like something that happened at a specific place they would avoid to that place again.

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