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for months we were havin sex once a weekish, she said she couldnt do it anymore because she didnt want to have sex with me if i wasnt her bf.
i left it a week and told her i could be her boyfriend but then she ljbf me.
now we still hang out and it is still flirty and whatever i think i could get her into bed easily but i dont know how to make her my girlfriend
Hit her back with it.
Next time she's being flirty with you just tell her, "We shouldn't get too ahead of ourselves here. We are just "friends" after all, you know." Say it with a smirk but in a slightly stern voice.
She needs to realize that if she wants to be just friends with you, she doesn't get to enjoy a flirty relationship. She can get those kicks elsewhere and you aren't her toy.