When she says "you dont want me" or "you shouldn't like me". what does that really mean?

thats a good question, a good question that you should ask her
minus the really part

Usually, a girl saying this sort of thing is fishing for validation from you. She trying to manipulate you to say "no, I like you", or "you're the best".

It means that she wants you to submit to her and confess the effect she has on you. Basically, she wants to know that she has some semblance of control over you.

Don't give her that.

"I know what I want."

All "I"s, No "You"s.

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through experience i notice girls do this alot when they are either seeing 2 guys at same time or when your ex has just broken up with you and shes trying to string you along making you think you have hope.. or it could be shes on a power trip and wants to control you.

they try to find out if you like them through the 'first part' as the first test.. the 'second part' is her admitting she maybe doing/done something bad and is trying to tell you indirectly she thinks she isnt deserving of your love.. and it could be that your not her top priority SPAM for that reason.

I had this with a girl in the past who said "i take it you dont like me"..
But i had always shown her through my actions i was attracted and she was single.. but she was playing games (seeing multi guys) and trying to make me a FWB.. she even admitted she treats people craply.. i even told her this myself n walked away from it.

shes trying to put words in your mouth so you respond..
And yep she is definately fishing for validation.. i usually respond to this "think what you want"..

response to the second part could be "yeah i dont think this is working out", dont tell her you like her and that you like her no matter what.

Depending on how she treats you it might be best in this situation to breakup depending on whats happened (re-evaluate it). if your not together simply back off.

study about the tests women throw at us.. i find it kinda fun learning this stuff.

It means the chick is a head case.

Great post. Never happened to me but will certainly use this once it happens.

Great answers, thank you all.