So yeah...I think I'm out of the friend zone with this girl I like. Last weekend we walked around down holding each others waist and last night she agreed to share a tent with me for a camping trip with friends this weekend.

So as a guy who has never had a girlfriend before. What sort of conversation should we talk about before I plant a big one on her? I dont want to just go in for the kiss randomly. Advice appreciated.

Actually, you do want to go in for the kiss randomly, girls love spontaneous actions. BUT prior to the kiss you need to build up kino so that she is comfortable with touching you etc... or else it would be awkward if you just suddenly jumped in.

Build up that kino boy, and go in for a k close

I thought it was kinda obvious that kino is established. I mean we friggen held each other by the waist. But in terms of being spontaneous what do I do? Just like talk about random things and then suddenly just kiss her?

Obviously start with heavy sexual tension, and in that tension take the next step. Do you know about triangulating? or the "dont kiss me" game? if you do use either of those and it will work out fine.

You start with KINO (ofcourse), after a little while when you get the feeling "I want to kiss her now" you probably know what I mean... Then you do 3 things.

1. Slow down your voice, make it sexual and introduce breaks to what your saying, ie. "Well... You know... I've been in Spain...".

2. Triangle gaze: First look at one eye, then her mouth, then the other eye. This says "I want to kiss you" like nothing else, the best thing about it; It's not verbalized!

3. Move your head slowly towards hers. If she backs completley, raise your voice and the energy level and go back to escalating again (KINO etc.) If she turns her head to the side, kiss her chin, turn it back slowly and kiss her mouth. Or she might just keep her head there/move it towards you.

The thing I love most about this method is that it's not verbal, so you can't get a verbal rejection and create an awkward moment! Hope this helps! Good luck!