First off let me say I'm very AFC still in comparison to you seasoned PUAs.

Well, so anyways, I put up an Okcupid/POF profile last week. I ended up having a lot of women initiating emails with me that first week but I was also online quite a bit while working from my laptop. One in particular started emailing me on Okcupid, I thought she was pretty cute, so I thought hey why not.

Well so we got to talking, found out we had a lot in common, even started having phone sex before our first meetup. On our first meetup we ended up kissing and doing mutual masturbation while at a bar (on a couch, under some throw pillows lol).

After that it was all downhill, she was messaging me all the time online or calling and I couldn't get any work done (I work as a programmer pretty intense stuff takes a lot of concentration) I have issues with concentration (ADHD), and started doing the needy manipulation stuff. However, I thought there might be something still there but I guess I wasn't being honest with myself.

Third meetup, which was last night, she pressured me for sex and asked me if I had a condom and we ended up doing it. Then she got all pissed off at me after because I'd had two champagne glasses in the sink that I'd forgotten to put in the dishwasher. This really wasn't intentional, I normally eat out all the time, it was from a previous relationship that ended a while back and I forgot in the middle of cleaning my place up, but she didn't want to hear that. Started guilt tripping me, and I couldn't really figure out a way to respond it to all that would settle her down. I knew where this was going, so I ended up blocking all phone/internet contact with her, sent her a letter on Okcupid explaining my point of view but telling her I don't wish to continue this anymore.

She called me from another phone number today and left a voicemail telling me she feels used and wants me to unblock her so we can talk. I feel horrible but I know this isn't going to work out and I want to move on.

So how do you guys deal with this aspect of it all? I feel like shit right now, like less than a human being. Maybe I'm just not manning up and being tough about it all. She's the one that decided to get needy, she's the one that decided to pressure me for sex (I actually believe it or not wanted to go slower b/c we had a lot in common, but I won't deal with the crazy games this soon, this is just way too much way too soon), I still feel horrible though that maybe I should have cut it off before it got to this point. A part of me recognizes she's just trying to guilt me another part wants to play into it.

This is the first time I've ever done anything like this for the record. I guess my PUA cherry just got popped.

She's a crazy bitch dude. Cut off all contact and keep it that way. If you hear her voice hang up the phone. You don't wanna get sucked in any further than this. I promise you. My boy is dealing with a crazy bitch who was telling him she'd kill herself if he breaks up with her. And i warned him that she was crazy the first time i met her. Dont feel bad, she wanted it. And your both adults. Ignore her, she'll get over it. its not that serious

Some women are like celestial meteors falling from the sky, they fall hard, they crash hard, and they leave a wake of destruction in their path. LOL

I do feel a little better now, sometimes it's better just to bounce it off and let an impartial party reel me back into reality about what I'm dealing with.