Long time reader, first time poster. Here's my situation;

I met this girl a while back; during school, she randomly approached me and started conversation. Over the next few months, we became casual buddies (i.e. sometimes ate lunch together, talked in the corridors). She was flirty.

Over the last three weeks, however, we've been on break. Since we've returned to school, she's barely acknowledged me. To the naked eye, it appears that she has lost interest; but I can't help but suspect she's playing hard to get. A few occurrences make me suspect this -- She was riding a skateboard down a path, whilst I was at a table with her friends, and she stumbled and fell on [b]me[/b], giggling. Wouldn't one of her friends have been more fit if this was, indeed, a genuine fall? Furthermore, just the other day I was walking home with my mate, his girlfriend (her close friend) and her; as per usual, she barely acknowledged my presence. However, she was overly flirty with my mate; this leads me to believe that she may have been attempting to evoke jealousy?

This is hardly a sure thing, but I also get the sense that she looks at me when I pass...

I'm confused. Help.

She might be but more likely she lost interest because you weren't able to escalate and read her IOI's. It's a turn off for women.

[quote="GameIsOn"]She might be but more likely she lost interest because you weren't able to escalate and read her IOI's. It's a turn off for women.[/quote]Could very well be true. Is there any hope if that's the case?

yeah stop being a homo, start escalating and showing interest in her (try to make her horny instead of keeping shit pluetonic and social)

He said it, in a fairly rough way tho. But yeah what you want to do is you want to show her that you indeed want to have sex with her by being sexual. Touch, eye contact, framing, verbally.

framing is leading a conversation,
the frame is the underlying meaning to the interaction,
the thread is the topic of the frame,

for example, a girl comes up to you starts talking to you about sailboats and she starts touching your leg with her finger and slowly moving it to your cock, she says sail boats i love the way they just sail the seven seas in search of a sea snake,

now the frame is this girl wants to touch your dick and the thread is about sailboats,

if you open a girl and she says buy me a drink,

the frame is you are too low value to get her attention without paying for it,
the thread is her asking you to buy her a drink


he is more or less suggesting control the frame more to be benificial to your pickup, for example at the start of a pickup a girl will likely try to place you into negative frames or counter productive frames, you need to alter the frame to be of benifit to your progress in the suduction, set sexual frames, touch her, tell her

when you are trying to create interest in a girl you need to ''SHOW HER'' you are interested on as many levels as you can, and spark arousal in her, this is your best chance

Since she seems to have played you, i say mindfuck her. Be very nice to her one day and show some small hints you like her. then ask her "did you ever mcyp?" when she says "what do you mean?" say "hahaha nevermind, i already know" laughing while walking away. Then stop talking to her too much. Then one day while she sees you laughing with friends point towards her a little bit. When she asks tell her, oh ya i was telling them how pretty you are today.

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