I went out with a girl yesterday (not the one from my previous topic). She was my major one-itis for like 3-4 years. I slept with her once years ago. Actually she was my first. Now, in the beginning she had a little crush on me, but being a fucking AFC made me turn her into something that broke my heart on several occasions. I thought spilling shit out was going to help me (haha I can't believe i'm even writing that last sentence now)

Huh? only 1/5 of my post is here. (rewriting)

cool story bra

So, I just can't read this girl out. The one moment she's turning her back (litterally). The other she's tickling my side. When she turned her back once. I said allrighty that seems like fun. And i turned my back as well. then she started to push me with her back (we where back-to-back)

I've been doing kino now and then, and she seems to be fine with that. But that can also be because of us being just friends. She's always like i'm her best friend because i'm the only one that stays around and helps her to get her shit straight (I got her into college, and made her find out what she likes to do)

I've been cocky from the beginning: Hey i think i can take that waitress home. But that would be a problem, because then her mother and sister will also fall in love with me. (props to the guy posting that yesterday:P). You know it's even so bad that there are people waiting in front of my house to see me. I got them a restraining order and that managed to kill the problem. You know, it was something like Ringo Starr (inside joke) that after a certain date he wasn't signing letters anymore. It's actually exactly like that. I told those girls: i won't do it anymore. get the hell out of here.

I think that's the first time that she had to laugh hard because of a joke i told. Sometimes it seems as if she's freezing me out until she wants attention.

lol

So i would like some opinions. Also I'm taking her out for a picknick next tuesday again.

Fuck her (not literally). She's like a cat; she comes around when she wants something, but goes and does her own thing whenever she can.

If you had to fix her, it means she was messed up before you met her. Although it sounds like you did fix her up a bit, you don't want to deal with girls like that.

Go on that picnic, but once that picnic is done and the day is over, tell her the truth. Say you want to be more than you guys are. And it's important to tell her that you want to fuck her (literally). Be detailed and angry about it to put more sexual tension between you two (grabbing from 60's ideas), which will help things move along.

The longer you keep her around, the longer you will be single and have no girlfriend. Put everything on the line and make her decide. "I want some time to think." No, fuck that shit. Answer has to be then and there. It's either a yes or no. If she gives you no definitive answer, freeze her the fuck out. There's other fishes to fry.

Ok, there is one slight problem.. And this is really stupid of me because i've been learning so much more lately that i wouldn't do a stupid thing like that anymore. But the thing is, she thinks i have a girlfriend. Because i didn't deny it at some point. It seemed to me at the time a good thing because it changed the way we behaved. She wasn't scared of me hitting on her anymore, and now i could show her how a changed and confident man i had become. And ofcourse I would not be available. Actually it worked out, because we were able to become friends once again.

However, this "lying" seems to backfire now. And jeah i think i fixed her for a great deal (not to be bragging). If I knew she was like she was I would never hit on her, because you're right. I've seen her change though (for the good).

Goddamned, this thing that i've done is so childish of me. I'll set it straight first. Then i'll crank up the sexual tension. You know, just for practice even.
I don't agree with you there. I'm working other girls as well. As i said, it's not oneitis anymore.

Lol working on other girls doesn't mean fucking shit. Taking from 60's again, you're just mental masturbating. Other than your mother, she is probably the biggest fucking female impact in your life. Without getting full confirmation on what your relationship is with her, you and other girls will never be.

Hmm you're right there about the impact. But I really see it as practice for my game. Like kino, see what cocky funny is and how far i can push it. That kind of stuff. I'll think about your answer some more. However, i'm still curious about what you think she's sending out as a message. Is she being more dominant then me? Also she was walking in front of me all the time really fast paced. I called her back numerous times. Like, are you in a hurry? Hey i'm over here, not over there. I'm not sure how I can be more dominant around her. Also have tips on that?

It's either 2 things: you smell like shit and she doesn't want to smell you; or she is just belittling you.

Sounds like she doesn't want to get close to you. It's possible, not probable though, that she has feelings for you and she's trying to get rid of them by moving away. Don't get your hopes up though and just stick to the plan on blowing this shit out of the water. You'll get your answer then.

Well that's clear language. I'll blow it out of the water:p

by the way, you were pulling things out of the 60 method. I've searched the forum and found lots of people mentioning it. Also googled it. Is it a just a book? or what should i find out about this? It seems to me that it contradicts something like cocky and funny. A style that i kind of like. Is it possible to mix them?

60s method,
qualify target(let her talk more then you, just listen with a poker face), create sexual vibe, never break sexual tension, just try to acheive mutal its on moment (mutual touching, he usually targets hands says its easiest) then go pull target home,


fuck that shit, this is what you do budd, YOU INVITE HER TO YOUR HOUSE OK?
THAT IS STEP 1
STEP 1) INVITE TARGET TO HOUSE
STEP 2)PUT ON A MOVIE, TELL TARGET TO COME CLOSER, START TOUCHING TARGET, KISS TARGET WITHOUT PERMISSION, RUB TARGETS PUSS AS YOU KISS,
FUCK TARGET

if you can not acheive step 1) freeze her out as she is not interested in you,
if step one can be completed you are doing good
if problems with step 2) go look up how to deal with LMR

TRUST ME, COME WATCH A MOVIE ALONE WITH ME AT MY HOUSE TRANSLATES TO COME FUCK ME IN GIRL LANGUAGE, AS LONG AS THEY ARE 16 YRS OLD + THEY KNOW WHAT THIS MEANS

Lol I think 60's method is most effective against new girls. Don't worry about his method too much against your girl. Once you figure out your shit, then you can decide on getting 60's stuff.