Well hello everybody, I am new to the forum and I thought this idea of sharing knowledge with PUAs would be interesting given the fact that I could use a lot of help.

It all started when i purchased the book "The Game" in spanish. I have read about 150 pages and I already feel the need to join this Community. I am 17 and I do not have the expirience I'd like to have. Since I live in a country in South America I get the feeling that some of the concepts like the ones I have read on the book might not work, but at the same time I also feel that the idea of picking up girls is universal and therefore the approch should be the same.

I have kissed 3 times in my life and had one GF. I think I feel I am behind most of my friends who have already made Home Runs and lost their virginity. The thing is I am entering senior year and I have realized I have to do something about it. There is this girl I like and she seems to like me too, but there are a couple of problems.

First of, she has no experience what-so-ever. She has never kissed anybody before and is far from having sex. She thinks of herself as a very pure person.

I have managed to talk to her not being shy only by text messages. I feel embarrassed. When I see her it is hard for me not to try to hard and she noticing it or in other cases I don't even look at her because of not knowing how to talk to her in an interesting manner that would lead me to feel progress.

The text messaging is always pretty much the same. We talk about almost the same thing, which makes me think that if I don't make a move she will get bored or move on to somebody more interesting.

The girl is considerably hot. I would consider myself handsome enough to pull if off, but there are other guys that are also after her.

She is actually in my school, one grade below me, and I see her almost every day (not in classes but from a distance). This makes me think of her every day...

I was just hoping someone could tell me what would the next step be.

Welcome to the game.

You should realize it's all a "numbers game".

Put her on pause for a while, find some guys who you can practice with locally - cold-approaching women, practice getting their numbers, arranging day 2s and lays, press the pause button again & the girl's yours.

There is no next step from your plan.

The first step you need to do, is to stop caring so much about what she might think, what she might do, what type of person she is blah blah blah.

Clear your head, the only thoughts you should be focused about should be regarding your own person. Women will come and women will go, you will remain you forever.

Now, start showing interest in her and be bold about it. If it means sometimes being a little sexual there is no harm. Virgins are always open to sex and that whole "I am too pure and a Nun" is a load of crap. Don't buy it for even a second.

The higher the risk, the higher the reward.

Maybe, you will feel uncomfortable sometimes because you're not exchanging "shy, sweet texts on the same topic" anymore but nobody ever got a win without going a bit or more, out of their comfort zone.

You can take this advice or you can completely disregard it. It's all up to you.

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next step, tell her you want to kiss her, then try to

How exactly do you suggest I show intrest on her in an effective way?

There are a lot of ways, but the best ones are the physical actions. Actions speak louder than words, said someone. 'Tis true.

A light touch on her forearm, guiding her with the hand on the small of her back, and if you think that you both are that comfortable then hold her hand, for a short time or till she pulls it back.

Also, TELL HER indirectly or directly, that you are attracted to her. She needs to know how you feel.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "