First off, I really need to share this video. I found it looking for my answer, and it is hilarious. He says some funny crap throughout the whole video. Spider-man teaches some pretty cool dance moves too though.

http://thepickupsite.com/outer-game/how-to-grind-dance/

Okay, now for the serious question. I have read through certain posts on this forum and looked for how to actually approach and ultimately dance with a girl. People have said asking is good, just go up to them and dance without saying anything, or dance alone and wait for girls to come to you.

I'm not that great of a dancer. I'm pretty stiff, but I'm trying to learn to dance. I got some dancing videos and I'm practicing myself (I probably look stupid if someone watched lol). So I'm guessing dancing alone probably won't attract girls to me.

How would you guys deal with this in this situation? I've had mixed outcomes for asking and without asking, but without asking got me more dances. I feel like asking has a lesser chance at getting a dance, but people say that girls don't like it when you don't ask.

The reason you get more than 1 answer is theres billions of women in the world, at least 1 will want you to ask, at least 1 will want you to just dance, and at least one will want you to take her by the hand and show her how its done. My vote is against asking, realise this, if some stranger asked if you wanna dance, would you say yes to em all? they will make the easy/lazy choice most of the time (unless your pea-cocking or unnecessarily hot). Going up and dancing depends on the dance, but i recommend this option, obviously dont go up grinding on her, but do something where you can dance alone or with a partner, that way its no loss if she doesnt join. Dancing alone is well... normal to me lol (weird ikr), anyways 99% of the time no1 dances with me ( ) so this is more of a luck thing (and the game shouldnt be about luck, its a game of skill). Finally Look At What You Said If it works why break it?

[quote="charblad"]The reason you get more than 1 answer is theres billions of women in the world, at least 1 will want you to ask, at least 1 will want you to just dance, and at least one will want you to take her by the hand and show her how its done. My vote is against asking, realise this, if some stranger asked if you wanna dance, would you say yes to em all? they will make the easy/lazy choice most of the time (unless your pea-cocking or unnecessarily hot). Going up and dancing depends on the dance, but i recommend this option, obviously dont go up grinding on her, but do something where you can dance alone or with a partner, that way its no loss if she doesnt join. Dancing alone is well... normal to me lol (weird ikr), anyways 99% of the time no1 dances with me ( ) so this is more of a luck thing (and the game shouldnt be about luck, its a game of skill). Finally Look At What You Said [quote]but without asking got me more dances.[/quote] If it works why break it?[/quote]

Lol thank you for your input. I just wanted to know what other people's input.


I don't know why my quote thing doesn't work.