I understand that you get a girl attracted by sort of, "manipulating" her emotions for lack of a better word

Does this work for negative emotions, like sadness and anger?
Ive noticed that some of my greatest successes (f close) have been initiated with a girl reminiscing on a bad time of her life, where shes in tears...i know thats weird as and NO i dont have a depressing aura, its just my luck so far

but yeah, if this idea could be better explained to me that would help.
You know, about the link between a girls attraction to you and her emotions.

thanks

Yeah it actualy works. By taking her on emotional rollercoaster you enable her to feel both ups and downs and associate good feelings with you.

Sadly this also works in LTR. So it's more than tempting using weakness of your GF to send her to bad place and then be "the one that always gets her in good mood when around".

The main thing is that you are not the one she associates bad feelings with. Let her go to that place alone and than bring her back.

That being said I think it's unnecessary and a dick move.

it is irrelevant, you will gain attraction mostly through social proof (good looks, worldly possessions (money), social circles (most importantly the pre-selection you display)), it is my opinion that emotional stimulation is just a way of being able to gauge your ability to effect BT and show different aspects to your personality (show you're more then 1dimensional), this provides more excitement for them, but as for closing, it is usually the opposite in my experience, usually i find, raising BT as apposed to lowering it, raises your success, and i would say it was more likely she hit an astronomical emotional low, and you raised her emotional state from that state, thus making you seem more emotionally valuable to her, other then that, attraction is mostly going to be social proof based, but the lay will be almost completely dependent on your survivability (ability to survive and adapt, ''game'', aka persona, aka verbal game, aka personality, aka how you run the game) that being said, having mad game with no attraction you will most likely not get the lay, and likewise having mad attraction with no game, you will most likely not get the lay, thus you are introduced to the paradox of women, the most selective of the two sexes, you need to be proofed, and you need to be survivable, good news though is there is more to social proof then ONLY, sexual reproductive value, and as long as you are not SUPER FAT, you are probably doing ok in the s&r department anyways

Yes, that is quite possible.

Truth is what you make a woman associate with you and if that is different from what she usually associates with other guys. I used to be with this girl and she had told me that she didn't care about me, she was indifferent blah blah blah and I just kept my cool at all times, didn't get affected by anything she said. At the end, she just exploded with anger and well, that was my opportunity.

Emotions like anger and a deep sadness have a lot of passion in them. Now, if you can manipulate that to your advantage. Works out well for you.

It is very important to have a strong frame of mind though when you deal with such women, because one weak moment on your part might close the window on your fingers.

Take your time. Play it calm. Eventually, you will tear down all of her barriers.

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There's a movie with Owen Wilson going to funerals to pick up women haha.

funeral crashers?

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yes lmao, Funeral Crashers its great, highly recommend

anyway cool cool, getting more of an understanding about this. Thanks guys