Basically I brought this chick over my house, ate her out until she came twice. And I couldn't get hard . I been ready to close her for a while. Hb 9, she refuses to suck my dick which pissed me off a bit and then she goes " I think we should wait, I really like you and I'm afraid If we have sex too fast you won't feel the same way about me. Lol you shoulda seen my face.. We end up chilling for another 2 hours with her telling me how bad she likes me an shit. Once she's ready to leave we start kissin and I get an erection only a god can get lol but i don't push it. I fingered her a lil more and showed her the door. B4 she left she said she wants to have sex with me tommrow .

Anyone ever been here? And how should I Handel her from here on out?

It happens to even the best of us. Ignore it though, i mean this girl already said she wanted to fuck lol. And well for your situation you'll need:
- To stop jerking off so much
- Condoms ( unless you want kids? DO YOU WANT KID!? )
- And something to throw at her and say clean your self up.

Other than that, good luck soldier. The rest depends on your game.

- Katon

Hey! Dont knock jerkin off. I gotz a teeny weenie and doing it helps me be not-so sensitive down there.

I'd be so pissed off that she wouldn't give me head after I ate her out I wouldn't even wanna fuck her. Getting head is mandatory! She'll probably be one of those bitches that just lays down like a washrag and not do shit anyway when you fuck her. When it's all about her, just run. It's never even worth it.

The first thing you tell her when she comes tomorrow is you want a blowjob. If she's too squeemish or grossed out to do that then tell her you have a headache. God damnit why cant men do it too?!

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A Tru nigga

I got nervous a few months ago and couldnt get it up. FREAKED out. Went to my DOC, he checked my ding dong and said dude u r fine, get these pills just in case.

I tried them once and my dick wouldnt go down for 2 days MAGIC, My confidence went on top of the world. I never needed them again, I just have them in a box with the condoms for the peace of mind, they work after 5 minutes.

Buy a few tablets ( Cialis is MUCH better than viagra, stays in ur system for 36 hours minimum), it fixes ur head fuck issues 100%.

You will not even need them, just get them to trick ur brain.

Dude u r fine trust me

Just as I started banging girls I began to think I was gay because I couldnt get excited enough to finish.

Trust me, I was actually depressed and frightened lol. I was thinking "Great, so this is how I find out? I must be gay. What straight guy wouldnt blow in 1 minutes his first time with a hb9. Im fucking gay. Great."

lol dude, it was the WORST time ever
I dont even think it was anxiety, but I know for a fact that the next time I did it with a girl (although I didnt finish) I enjoyed it a lot and think about it from time to time.

Anyway, I know this sounds off track but heres where the idea comes.
*I think its completely normal to go through cycles where your drive is low. Or at least for me anyway - some weeks ill be completely forward with a girl because im that desperate, then the next week I seriously wouldnt fuck a girl if she asked me to. Those are the extremes lol

So I reckon in your case you could have a simliar thing...but then again if it was JUST at that moment it could always be cos of stress, be it due to your situation locally or in general in life. Maybe you were thinking about paying bills or sum shit, even subconciously is a possibility
or too much masturbation
or anxiety (dont dismiss this, everyone gets anxious whether you realise it or not)

And my advice is basically dont stress or bother with medication unless this is ongoing for a few weeks. Or, if you dont have a couple weeks to spare, try one week.
Because from your current situation, a one off event like that as far as I know happens a lot, mates of mine have complained about the same thing. In their case it usually goes away quick