Alright so basically I broke up with my gf a month ago and up until last w/e we were still fairly close havin sex etc etc
Now out of nowhere she doesn't wanna be like that anymore. I am a little upset coz if it coz I'm still pretty attatched and whaever.
Anyway we are still friends we have been hangin out a bit and it's all been pretty flirty and stuff. I told her we could get back together which I know is afc and whatever but fuck it I like this girl and we were together for like a year and a half, surprise surprise it didn't work but I dnt wana move on, so do u think I just keep hangin out flirting etc and try to turn it sexual or take it further? That's kinda my plan I was just wondering if I could have some opinions.
Also she promise she hasn't been and can't see herself being with anyone else for a while and I'm pretty good at telling if she's lying and I'm sure she wasn't.[/list]

freeze her out?

You want her because you cant have her. Once you do have her, you will lose attraction once again and want to break up again. If you are this wishy washy then you should break up with her. Right now you are happy with your freedom until she took tye sex away and now you want to get back with her so you could get the sex back. Way to make her feel like a piece of meat. You are startng to lose her. Either be friends and stop trying to fuck her or tell her you need to cut all contact with her.

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yea i guess you are right. im just bein a fuck.
im going to go with the friend option. thanks

Exactly the above. You already told her what you want and she didn't comply so obviously something's wrong. IMO it's best for you to just let her go and search a new girl. You don't wanna have that between friend and lover relationship with someone you care about cuz she'll just throw you off your game and make you miss all the fun. Either friend or lover or none at all.

Hope this helps

I agree with what they said. The wanting something because you can't have it is a HUGE pull which i've experienced in my last 2 break ups. You just got to sit down and decide what you think is better for you. Remember the reasons you broke up with her in the first place and if you had good reasons, make sure whatever those issues are fixed now.

One reason you probably want to get back together is for the sex, cause you probably feel like you can't get it anywhere else right now, and i've been there. Study up on this stuff and work on meeting new girls and having lots of new girls to flirt with and have fun and work from that

You guys are right, I don't wanna spoil the good memories by creating bad ones. That's just it is I'm missing the fun, I just need to go have fun with other girls to get it in mind that I can have fun with other girls! Btw I lost my virginity to this girl so I guess I have virgin syndrome aswell. Like I don't know what else is out there.
Thanks heaps for the help guys.
Damn I love this forum!!!
I love the support/community feel to it.