i have oneitis and have been in a long term relationship,to be exact 8 months+/-.
recently i've had a feeling shes been cheating on me,when i confronted her about it she denied everything n swore i was the only one.

when then started using SPAM to chat to one another,how ever her chatting times were different to the time i logged off at.she says that its the program and that shes chatting to no-one.....

yeah i got it bad cause im still with this woman,i can't get out either,believe me i've tried,lead to some great make up sex but i'm better than her and i know that i should have another but i want to stay,she says its paranoia.....damnit its not paranoia is it?Am i on the mark and shes cheating on me?

but my main question is should i bother even staying,i mean she says she writes songs about me,when we fight she crys and begs,when we text she sends me paragraphs, i see her everyday and yet still i believe every word she says to me is a lie.

i need some advice
Marche

my experience is.. whatever your gut is telling you is prob. true. woman are insecure creatures. shes not going to let one thing go, unless she knows she has something equally good or better to fall back on.

id bet she is at least talking to someone else. sorry bro

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