hey ( im also attracted to older woman )

why are guys attracted to older woman ?.. most have children and are older. i mean why do you want a girlfriend that is 15 or 20 years older than you ? it seems counter-productive not only because of age ( i don't see myself making love to a 60 year old woman if im 35 ).

i like to conversate with woman .. and i like to game with them... somehow i met this woman ( on the internet) she really looks good, she shit tests me like crazy - despite her age ( 43 ) she is really hard to game... she is somewhat a ''alpha woman''.

somehow im attracted to her... i normally do not game/date/ interact with woman over the internet - il rather prefer to sarge face 2 face because that gives me more control over my preselection process. however im not stupid .. im not going to do something i don't want to do and i can always reject interactions , im just curious about the feelings and thoughts im having.

question to myself is
am i just attracted to her because she's very hard to game, she's more mature than every woman i've met.
Or is it because i feel the unconcious desire to control a mature woman( older woman )

maybe she gives me excitment.. which i mistake for attraction just because she's hard to game.

anyway what is your take on this ? are you attracted to older woman ? if you aren't what do you think is the cause or reason ?

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maybe you just want to bang your mom, does she remind you of your mom?

LOL .. i already thought of that idea lol ... gladly i can say no !

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because, lode, you are a smart guy (like me) and that girl (woman) has had a few more years under her belt to get smart.

intellectual challenge.

she ain't dumb.

she is wise.

it's a challenge. and a welcome one.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

maybe you just like all women, milfs are awesome, teens are awesome, the strict buisness types are awesome, the easy party sluts are awesome, girls that ''just want to have fun'' are awesome, BUT in the end STI's are not fucking awesome, don't be a fool, wrap your tool

i agree with you guys .. i think im attracted to the challenge... i like younger woman as well but they are more easy to get.

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Just remove the 'Or' and you have the answer to your own question.

We smart guys have a thing for older ladies because they seem to have that important 'been there,done that' experience which we don't see in younger girls. Also, the fact that they're emotionally stable and generally, very good conversationalists makes them a lot more fun to game.

And it's such a satisfaction, when you tame an experienced horse even if you're a relatively young cowboy. (LOL worthy metaphor, I know)

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

I can say this, I'm seeing that I'm getting attracted to older women ever since I watched American Pie (when the MILF concept was introduced to me ), so maybe it's the media, I dunno, just my thought

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I also feel attracted to somewhat older, sexy cougars. But I think it relates more to the "cat theory" than anything else.

Despite the "teens" are sometime hard to play, it's nothing caompared to a more experienced, "been there done that" huntress.

What attracts me is the challenge indeed. When I get bored of the easy "20yo sexy no-brained chick" in the club, I use to go for The Olympics. Like trying to get a super hot cougar desperate about me. For two reasons:

1 You fail: Then you feel like definitely feel like you gotta improve your game. It gives a little boost, because you were almost there, and you needed just a lil'bit more. That sensation that you could have done it, will make you work harder for the next one.

2 You success: It will give a huge self-confidence boost that will help you any other future approach, should it be cougars or not.

So yes, I understand why you may get attracted to them, and that may be a reason. And I actively encourage you to dismiss the "bang my mom" shit ^^

Cheers,
Jon, aka Logycs