So I'm new to the bar game. I live in a small town where most people know each other, it's like a 7,000 population town where we only have one bar.

Last night I decided to hit it up and noticed it was mostly a bunch of dressed up fat women or the few cute girls who did decide to come came with their boyfriends.

So if most women come with a guy already or with their boyfriends, how exactly do you work this over? I wasn't looking to start any fights last night or start a record so I didn't want to piss off some drunk douche bag.

Also, I was talking to this drunk girl.. I was like "Yep, sure thing right here." then her god damn fat jealous friend made her leave because she was "drunk." GAH fat chicks..

My Questions:
#1 - is there any way to hit on the girls who already come with guys without pissing the dudes off?
#2 - is there any way to combat cock blocking fat girls? Fat girls usually get jealous very quickly once they see their friend getting attention and not themselves.

#1: Kill boyfriend. Hit on widow.
#2: Kill fat chick. Noone will care.

When you were there were you having fun? If yes then just go out to have fun and socialize and be one of the gang and if it leads to something else then great.

If you are going with the sole intent of trying to score chicks and it isn't fun for you then you'll just end up looking like a desparate creeper trolling bars trying to pick up skanky drunk chicks.

I was never a bar person and it just wasn't fun and enjoyable for me and even if I was able to pull a chick, I was in a small town too and just didn't want to be "that guy."

If you have fun doing it whether you get chicks or not, then there is no real harm. But if you are just doing to get chicks and aren't having fun then find another venue that works better for you. For me it was at my work place, school and through mutual friends, parties etc.

As far as what to do with women that are their with their BFs, keep in mind that most people in their upper teens/lower 20s are serial dating. that means they may be going out with someone to try them out for a period of weeks, months maybe even a year or so and then they break up and go with someone else for awhile.

That "someone else" is usually someone who caught their eye and got their attention while they were seeing their BF. Usually there is a period of overlap.

So even if you don't want to actually cheat with some gal and run the risk of being labeled "that guy" and don't want your ass kicked, just be a little flirty and show some attention and interest but use some disqualifyers to keep it clean but let her know that when she is ready to test drive a new model that she will like the ride.

#1- a) you can enter mixed set, indirect, and try to win whole set over and tansition with so how do you all know each other (this allows you to see the relationships in the group) if its bf/gf then just say pleasure meeting you and open new set
b)you can open mixed set, open the guy who you think is the bf 1st, say i just wanted to say you have such a (insert direct compliment here) girlfriend, good job man i just wanted to shake your hand (if he is her bf he gets quick validation and feels good and if he is not Bf you get to find out and can work the set)
c)you can open the girl when she is alone or non verbally by getting eye contact and doing something silly to make her smile, like flexing you bicept and pointing to it, or making a silly face, then after she smiles or laughs, go up to her and just say, so how have you been (credit gambler), the set will believe you guys allready know each other, but you need to make sure to get that non verbal opener 1st, and get the ioi, if she looks away and seems dis-interested you will get blown out,
d)man up go direct on girl, when Bf or guys step up, AMOG them like a champion (make sure your either good at fighting or there is a bouncer near by to diffuse the situation)

#2 allways, allways, allways, ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLWAYS, handle obsticles before targets, when you first approach it should seem like your trying to hit on the fatty, give attention to the whole set until extraction, and get HBfat to give you permission to isolate, and w/o permission i would take them both to merge sets (say THIS IS GAY LETS GO MAKE FRIENDS AND GRAB HANDS), and find another obsticle to occupy HBfat, once occupied attempt HB extraction and number close immidiately, then try to escalate, the number close is really important and try to get HB to recant that she will remember you, get her to qualify on the close, say something like... im doing X thing on X day, i totally want you to come with me, (hb says she is down), you: actually nm, you've been drinking you probably won't even remember me (this point you are waiting for OH NO ILL REMEMBER YOU) then close number, you do this as fast as possible so if HBfat comes back and removes target, you can still call for a day2, but allways try to pull for same night, just need to occupy obsticles or get their permission

With the fatties, why not use the jersey shore technique? Namely, get a friend who is willing to "chat up" the fatty while your busy with the other one. They can just keep them busy for a while, but don't have to go all the way. You would need a really helpful friend for that though