I have few friends. Its summer from college. Dont do anything but go to my job at a store. Anyhow, I go to the mall several times a week. I try to talk to girls... my mind goes blank. All of the PU techniques seem cheesy as shit and regardless of everything I keep thinking 'this is stupid and I look like a creeper if I approach this group of girls alone' because thats what Im doing: some loser creeping at the mall on girls -___-

Not sure how to open comfortably. And yes, I dressed up but I still feel I look kind of nerdy. And Im depressed. I just want a hot girlfriend.

I think it might be a little better once college starts again but I remember I did the exact same thing in college. I walked around campus and hovered like a creeper and every opener I thought up of seemed too creepy to use.

And I never had friends or anything to get me to parties or social events. I was always the 'scum of the heap' in the social ladder you could say. Hung out with the worst people (assholes who always made fun of me), have this super low self esteem that makes me think Im like a super nerdy loser (which I dont think I can get rid of due to my countless years of being made fun of) I dont feel socially comfortable going to parties or any of that anyway, even if I got super attractive somehow.

The only light of hope I have, which Im proud of is that Ive always felt I deserved or could get super hot girls, ever since I was little. It was just something natural I felt. And it paid off slightly... Sometimes super hot girls would show interest in me but I just didnt fit socially or anything in order for anything to progress.

And to top it all of, there are a bunch of asshole friends who will make fun of me and try to tear me down once I get more attractive (im going to the gym, buying new clothes, contacts, etc.) because theyll always remember me as that shy low-self esteem nerd with glasses with little friends.
I actually think Im fairly attractive without glasses but I guess because so many other people in my past have made fun of me, Ive find it hard to believe myself at times


Anyhow, I just want to know how I can meet hot girls without BEING A CREEPER. Something NORMAL.

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Hey man you gotta stop looking for the easy way out. Correct me if Im wrong I may well be, but I think when you say creepy you mean you dont want to have to push through your fear.

Think of it this way, there aint no "technique" where you can just go up to a girl under a completely normal frame and chat her up. Even opinion openers your risking too an extent.

If I was you Id ditch the friends, fuck it you already said you bottom of the social ladder and dont get invited to places, why bother with them.

Just do 2 things, reframe the fear as something good, and realise through affirmations and just acting as though its true that people are social and want to talk. If you look relatively normal out in the street and go and ask somebody there opinion on something, or even just situational, they will stop and talk. the worst they will do is ignore you

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I refuse to let fear be a problem

Id rather die on my feet than live on my knees

ROFL, its funny you say that, usually when i go out to bars and people ask me what im doing i say im going out to creep on girls,

anyways, stop being a pussy, you want to get laid or you don't want to get laid?,

do you honestly think girls don't like being hit on? you might feel that way when you approach a bunch of girls that think your un-attractive, ''creepy'' is just a term girls use for guys that they find un-attractive that show interest in them, if some 47 yr old 250 lb lady came up to you and started compliance testing/physically escalating on you relentlessly and telling you how sexy you were, you would probably think she was creepy too, well to girls if your nervous and have no social skills, you have about the same appeal, and unfortunately the only way to gain those skills, is you guessed it.... face your social anxieties your going to have to ''look creepy'' before you can learn to ''not give a fuck'', because honestly that is all this comes down to, pickup is simply having a slight structure, learning how to read body language, learning how to hold a good conversation, finding out if you like a girl and if she likes you, then trying to have sex with her, and pushing peoples limits until you find where the limits truly are, during the whole process you're really just not giving fucks all day long, you approach alot of girls, because you can realize some are easier then others, but at the same time you approach the hard ones, do you know why? it's because you give so many fucks (that's right you start to give 0 fucks), you also notice after a while the quicker you escalate the better, the faster you try to get laid the more likely it happens, you realize that all you have to do is follow up, people say HOW DO I GET THIS ONE GIRL, I WANT HER EVER SO MUCH, YOU ASK HER OVER TO YOUR HOUSE, AND YOU TRY TO BANG HER, THAT IS HOW, if you don't do it, it will never happen, she is not going to randomly invite you to her house and jump on top of you trying to come on strong with you going , I DON'T KNOW WE BARELY KNOW EACH OTHER I JUST MET YOU, WE SHOULDN'T BE DOING THIS, putting up that LMR FOR HER, but then SUDDENLY OUT OF NO WHERE SHE FREEZES YOU OUT AND SCORES THE DICK, DID I MENTION SHE WAS A HB10, get to work mother fucker stop whineing about the process and go learn to enjoy it, hitting on girls is fun, and it is hella rewarding, getting a blowjob is worth getting called creepy/feeling social pressure and being blown out 100x over, i would love to get blown out 10x if it means i get blown, if you don't like the techniques learn the theory and make your own,
it all boils down to
DO YOU DO WHAT YOU WANT?
DO YOU CARE WHAT PEOPLE THINK?

this is all that truly matters in pickup, after 1000+ girls you will notice common patterns and figure out how to fix the negative patterns

First of all - you should find new friends.
So called "friends" who only drag you down are not friends at all!

Next month I'm going on vacation with four friends who have all (but one) worked out at the same gym as me. You should try to use arenas such as that to make new friends.
The friends from my gym are all relatively successful and we help each other out with women etc. If I'm talking to a girl my friend can look at me and indicate that I should start kino, or tell me that the brunette to my left is hot for me, or stuff like that.
One of my friends even wanted to compare business cards with him in front of a HB8 because he knew that it would be a DHV for me - but not so much for him. Good friends do stuff like that for each other.

Now I'm hooking up with some girls who live where we are going on vacation and of course I'm trying to set their friends up with mine, so we can go on group dates and stuff. Good friends also invite each other to parties and such.

I'm not a PUA, but I'm working on it, and I know for certainty that the difference between hanging out with good friends and the a-holes who are putting you down is going to make this a whole lot easier (or less difficult, depending on how you see it).

Good luck!

Im no longer looking to just hook up. For two main reasons:
-Ive never had a girlfriend and i would like something real before anything else
-I was burned REAL badly by a girl who I thought might be the prettiest, greatest girl ever. Turns out she blew another guy and kinda lead me on by being super shy but always looking like she thought I was like a dreamboat (anyhow its complicated, but when I found out it was like a complete shocker) And I realized, for the time being I dont want to be like that douchebag who moved on after they hooked up

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