i met up with a chick i used to fuck on a month to month basis this past week.
..a few months back she admitted she had feelings for me and didnt just want to be fb's, regardless.. i was still able to have sex with her on 3 occasions after she brought that up.

she just moved to a new city and invited me in to show me her new place, she was all dolled up too, hair, makeup, manicure, pedicure, smelled like a bar of ivory soap from 10 feet away. changed her pants right in front of me.. i know she was ready to fuck.

but i left kicking myself with blueballs after i didnt pull a move this time.
we were in her place so naturally she was framing the situation, so we sat at her kitchen table and talked, little bit to eat, etc, then she showed me her bedroom, the view outside of the skyline, then back to the table to talk a bit more, until she started yawning....i knew by that point it was too late.

it was just an akward sitution...as if we were both ready to fuck, and just watched the clock tick in her place instead of initiating a crazy night (this girl is a freak btw)

i kinoed the whole night, but we never got to the point where it would have been easy. in other words, she never set up the situation so we'd be cuddling on the couch so it would have been really easy for me to make the kill.

so basically im looking for ideas to start physical escalltion, when youre in a situation that isnt framed as physically "close" in proximity.

it just seems like the only way i could have initiated anything would have just been to grab her and go passionate caveman on her... i just didnt feel i built the comfort enough to do that even though now that i look back it proabably would have worked assuming ive already had sex with her multiple times

caveman is one option that probably would have turned her on, but it also could have led to akward rejection.... so give me some ideas that lead to close physical proximity when the dynamics of the environment arnt going that way....games, play wrestling, etc, etc.... i want things that more-so present to the girl that im sweeping her off of her feet.

thanks guys

Sometimes a girl just wants to be cavemanned!

My buddy was just talking a about some NLP stuff that can lead in a little bit.

"A person could really get pretty aroused at home alone with a beautiful woman"

or building sexual tension with an anticipatory state

"Have you ever been on a roller coaster? You know in the beginning where you are moving up slowly click click click and just going up higher and higher... It builds and builds until you hit the top and then WHOOOOOSSSHHH. It's such an amazing feeling"

I've been fiddling with the roller coaster one for covering up when I fail to escalate on time... it subcoms that I was intentionally building sexual tension with her... even though I was just being a pussy.

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

My opportunity would have been when she was changing her pants. Just tell her: "Come on, girl, you don't have to put on a new pair. You're going to have to take them off again..." And then go for a kiss, lead to making out, direct toward sex.

yea i know i missed some opportune times to slide in, hence me kicking myself

this wouldnt have been a difficult task but i made it that way in my head.

trying to think of smooth ways to go caveman next time i see her in a couple weeks... ive done caveman in the past with commited girlfriends and it usual led to the girls saying that was the best sex ever, so yes i know it works.

i just have to get over the fear of doing it with a girl thats not "mine" but more so a friend i cant help but have to fuck.