ok, so i met this girl on the bus, constant looking at each other. she ran in to me at my usual club but coulden't do anything cause her ex was there and she's still into him (eventhough he's just abusing her for sex).

next week she asked my number on facebook and was rather greedy so i played layed back , doeing some kino and pulling of some canned storries. we kissed and met up af few times after (we kissed every time we did). problem was she wasen't rdy to engage in a relationship cause she was still into her ex and was trying to forget him.( she was scared of starting anything up because if she had feelings (which she had) she could get hurt.

after that we diden't meet up anymore cause i thought it was a waste of time and moved on. but yesterday i got back from holliday ( K-closed (+ some playing around) a girl) and she started texting me. so i invited her to my birthday party a a neat club and she asked for a pre party at her place (and she asked to spend the night at my place. ). so i went to her house and we got a bit drunk and fucked the hell outa each other. yet she stopped twice ... and told me she wanted it but would reget it in the morning... how should i proceed? id rly like a relationship with this chick... is she into me or?

She's got baggage. Unless she is willing to lose all of it, you CANNOT have a start with her and hope for a healthy relationship.

Next time when she was a last minute resistance moment, just tell her that you know it's a bad idea, but you just dont want to stop. Or something along those lines.

The words don't matter, the tone does.

I once blew away a LMR with "I like pineapple pudding." but the way I said it, did it for me. Don't try it though.

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