Okay so I'm in a relationship and her bestfriend is a straight guy. She said she doesn't like him and everyone always teases her that they should go out (before us) and that she would never ever go out with him. She said she sees him as a brother and he's not physically attractive to her. But he's always been trying to get with her no matter how much times she said she doesn't want him. He calls her his bestfriend but she doesn't like that label. But one night, I realized somethings and connected the dots...

1 - She said that if she wasn't with me, she probolly end up with him in the future. (Why did she said that if she always been denying him and she strongly said she doesn't like him in that way)

2 - She said that out of all her friends, she would like to keep him as a friend no matter what that you can go to. "You need at least 1 person you can always trust" - her

3 - I said I want to see him with a girlfriend and then she says yeah he should because he's really trustworthy, loyal and understanding. He never had a girlfriend before and he's a virgin.

4 - She said she had a dream with me, her, her bestfriend, and another friend. She said she was talking to him in the front of the car and I was in the back crying... 0_o

5 - One night, a long time ago, when she was at a rave, she said that she would be in a relationship with him because hes so nice or something. She told me that he told her that she said that to him, but she doesn't remember... (She was "rolling")

I guess she likes me because I'm interesting and that I'm different than all the other guys she ever talked to and went out with. I understand a lot of things that other people think is weird. And she says she doesn't like her best friend like that, but what's up with all the small talk about her enjoying him? I don't get it...

It's either some sort of shit test or your over analyzing the situation bud.

I must have over analyzed it huh? I know I'm not a jealous person, but I feel worried about the positive things she said about him. Plus they do a lot more activities together since he lives closer. I live pretty far... >

You can always see how she reacts whenever you bring your pivots around.

And she says I got swag that he doesn't have. I dont why girls wouldn't go for someone who has good characteristics and morals?

Well, she's made her choice.

She chose you. Not him.

Drone on and on about your buddy in your head and there is a good chance you will drive this woman away.

Focus on yourself and her. Not some unconnected third party.

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