hi guys,

i m not a social guy. i tried to be social, just because being pua somehow requires it. but i do not enjoy it.

i am not funny, can't tell jokes just to make others laugh. i try it, again because pua requires.

i do not want to have long term relationships with women (i am 30), all i want is to lay the woman.

i find the pua tactics: social, humorous, etc. very burdening.
i want direct approach to women. quick exchange of interest.approval or denial. then making out if approved. otherwise move on the next.

which pua style best describes the way i want it to be?
kindly reply?
(ps: mystery method is not for me, so far i know of it only. other methods i just heard names.)

There isn't really much you can do without being somewhat social...I mean, I guess you could just try apocalypse opener on a bunch of girls and see where it gets you.

Read 60 years of challenge

Take my response with a grain of salt, given that I just joined these forums, but I will admit that having come from a 14 year relationship, I had to seriously build on my social skills to get involved and I agree that in some ways things feel like a burden. I can't imagine how much the burden would weigh if I went the other way around and simply went from person to person trying to score an f-close.

I've learned to actually enjoy the game and once I quit worrying about getting f-closes, things started to come together much more easily and the more you practice these skills, they less burden you really have and will become quite adept with talking to people. Like I said, I have a long way to go, but I practice talking to everyone about anything whether they are male or female and its paying dividends.

Good luck man...just open up.

Keno...

thanks sparroww. i googled AO, will try it tommorow.
thanks chris, i am reading 60YoC now. seems right for me.
thanks kemo for nice words.

persistance wins ....

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My man, if you like to cross the river, you have to learn how to swim no matter how much you hate it, you are trying to go to the other side, you AE GONNA HAVE TO GET WET.

There are some facts you HAVE to accept:
- Nobody cares what you think or your intentions are.
- You like me, like many other have been the victims of wrong social and of course parents education.
- You have no choice but to accept that in order to get laid you need 2 things: 1: Your cock. 2: Attraction.

Fair enough Mystery method isnt yours (there is still ALOT to learn and apply in his method for everyone).

So I sencerly advice you to start listenning to Adams videos in masterpickupuniversity ASAP. Listen to MAtt Hussy, yes you have to change your attitude and the way you see the whole thing.

I came a motherfuckin LONG way bro. I was scared of talking to ANYONE! I realized I am fucked in the head, I have social and emotional issues and I seeked help. I educated myself, I still fail a lot but every now and then I get to fuck amazing beautiful women! I was skiny as shit. I went to gym,, I still do, 4days a week, I changed my fuckin body , the way I talk, walk, look, EVRYTHING.
Watch Tom Cruise interviews, watch Marlon Brandos videos, fuck jokes, learn how to speak, find good topics, educate urself I cant say that enough, u have accee to internet for fucks sake!!

The day you accept you are fucked, is the day you start to grow as a person.

Listen to Adam Lyons attraction videos, Listen to Matt hussy, listen to David deanglos deep inner game.

At the end of the day No one cares if u r jerkin off or u have 2 HB's. Its your responsibility. Trust me this is the right thing to do.

Definetely Sinn... or Change to dance floor game...

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thanks alot PW for those nice words! i will check those out.
thanks skills i will google those and study.

my today's field experience taught me that 60YoC is 1000% correct!!
if we escalate fast women will respond positively. infact i found them baiting me for more...

i am loving it!