A girl I've been friend with for a while has been giving me IOIs, like she hugs me, puts her hand around my shoulder, goes out of her way to see me etc...and I was a stupid prick and never returned her IOIs.

She still uses hearts and ily in her texts so I decided to step it up a notch and begin giving her hugs and what not but now shes distancing herself. So what did I do wrong?

Maybe she was just being friendly? She saw you as a good friend?

Or she's just surprised by your sudden show of affection and is uncomfortable about what to make of it.

Either way, take it down a notch.

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What you did wrong? You showed her you are genderless. You bullshitted yourself. Deep inside, your masculine role wanted to return IOIs and even step it up 60 notches and get her to have sex with you asap. However, your conscious mind messed you up. Attraction is all PRIMITIVE. You simply have to act like you were 10000 years back. You're sitting under a tree butt naked and random female out on the field. What do you do?

Hugs and kisses from her don't mean hugs and kisses. It means blowjobs and intercourse, that's what she really wants. Think about it...

Hugs? first of all, if you have to strategize a hug, it's always going to be lame and awkward. If you have to do it, make it a grandiose hello, or a half assed goodbye.

For this girl, just let her see you looking irritated, then freeze her out. she will eventually ask you what's wrong. Then, just do some reverse push/pull game. And damnit, if she gets all up to you, just go for it already, you are two feet, one arm and half your head in the friendzone already.

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