I have f-closed a girl at my work and she seems very open to alot of guys i work with, more or less she has just been a FWB for me, I found out just today that one of my friends wants to go out with her, He does not know i f-closed, he talked to me about it and wanted to know if i liked her, i was honest and said i did but he can do what ever he wants and i will do what i want etc. but if he starts dating her i believe it would be a moral dilemma as when i f-closed this girl she allready had a Bf (that she didn't tell me about until after), I want to continue having sex with this girl but i have reached a moral dilemma if she dates my friend, does anyone have any experiences like this and what happened, if the drama is worth it, i am stuck in indision where im not sure, the girl is important to me, but so is the friend, while the friend is in my social circle he is not in my immidiate friends group (about 5 best friends and around 30 friends i just hang out with from time to time he is part of the 30)

any ideas on how to handle this situation?

You have to ask youself. What is more important to you.

Your buddy who will probably remain that way for many years, or some chick you've banged who will probably drift out of your life within a year?

My advice. Go open some more sets. If this chick is really into you she will chase as she is fully invested after sleeping with you. Worst case scenario you end up finding some better chicks and fucking them.

And honestly would I want to start a relationship with a girl who cheated on her boyfriend to sleep with me? No. I may be a PUA with few morals, but a leopard never changes it spots.

On to the next one bud.