hi guys,
i am in the game from quite a some time now.i have read a lot of material and has been interacting with girls.
i started this thread to share my experience of , a , what i see as i bit different relationship and discuss with you guys about it.
I met this girl 1 and a half year ago.She was instantly atracted.my game was tight.she started chasing me and within one month we were in a relationship and started having sex.at this stage i was a HIGH VALUE ALPHA MALE and DOMINANT IN THE RELATIONSHIP.I was not jealous with her male friends,placed no restrictions on her and took no shit from her.she was completely addicted to me and crazy about me.
We had an emotional connection.NOw that we were in a relationship she started trying to domesticate me.you know trying to DOMESTICATE alpha male stuff.girls do that once they get into a relationship they want guys to compromise.they want that alpha male they got attracted to domesticated and once it is complete they are attracted to another alpha male.
For one year it was all under control but from last 5-6 months.things seems to go out of hand.From a HIGH VALUE ALPHA MALE my status got transformed to that of a jerk (as i was not completely domesticated otherwise i would have been a beta male ).i started doing things i never use to do:-

1.taking her more seriously.
2.tolerating her drama,crying and all that.
3.i cried in front of her a few times.
4.i abused her and threatened her.

then i tried to fix things up.I apologised unconditionally and took responsibility and tried not to act like a jerk.But i have lost the upper hand which i had.
for whole one year she use to call me day and night,msg me,ask me out and use to call me at her place for sex.She is too much invested in me.I GAVE HER A LOT OF GOOD AND BAD MOMENTS.a lot of ups and downs.SHE WAS TOO MUCH INTO ME.
But the more i tolerate the more she acts cocky.Her behaviour is improper with me like shouting on me for no reason and all.I tolerated it 3-4 times but thn i stoped talking to her.i told her that i am deleting you from my fb and wont call up ever again.she is out of town.this happened on 4th of july i.e. this month itself 12 days ago while she was in train she left that day.she was completely addicted to me and crazy about me till as recent as 4 months back thn it seemed to abb,decline.
i hvnt called or msged since thn neither have she tried to contact me.
so guys the questions are:-
1.would she ever think of me HIGH VALUE ALPHA MALE again??
2.would all that investment going to wasted?(investment here means her psychological investment)
3.i am expecting her call.what should i do when she call up??
4.how would she get addicted to me the way she use to be?
5.what should i do if she never call up?

GUYS FEEL FREE TO ADD MORE TO DISCUSSION.I AM LOOKING FORWARD FOR YOUR SUGGESTIONS AND ADVICES.

I been here before bro; it's instinct for women tho. They try and cram you into a beta male so they can take control of the relationship, however once they gain control it's off they go. So they spend time manipulating and shit testing unless your in their palms. They try and convince you that they would be happier if you were more "beta". And in fact this is exactly what they don't want. They want that alpha male they bitch about. Someone that dominates them and gives them drama.

You won't instantly be able to switch back to alpha without a little space. Your going to need to give it a 1-2 week break. In that time flirt with other women and remind yourself what your duties are as a man. Best case scenario you'll find another women that blows her out of the water.

so nice of you to reply bro!!thnx for the advice.plzz do reply for the rest of the questions.

where are you trying to go with this relationship?

are you still trying to be with her? cause if you are.. this should be in the Relationship thread.

my Advice i'd move on.. Learn from what you did here and move on.. to answer your questions

1) No cause you've already broke down in front of her and if you somehow distant yourself from her and it starts all over, she knows she can break down your Alphaness

2)If it didnt work out, then yes that investment went to waste... now if she learned from it or not that's on her. This includes you to

3)You are not expected to do anything... What do YOU want out of it?.. that's the question you should be asking yourself.

4) In my opinion.. it wont, why? you guys where in a relationship...You may have the upper hand in the beginning (that's because she lets you) but after that.. she gonna take over again and the cycle is just gonna start over.

5)Move the fuck on and stop crying about it..DUH

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Sounds to me like you met, hit it off, started dating, had a relationship, got to know each other, started realizing that each of you is a regular, fallible human being, started getting on each others nerves.....and broke up.

That's normal. Millions of people do that every day. Going into and out of relationships is normal and what people do.

That's what marriage is for, it's so people make a binding committment to stay together untill the offspring are raised up to a point they no longer need two parents taking care of them to survive.

You didn't mention anything about kids or marriage so this is just a garden variety break up of a dating relationship. Welcome to the human race.

I don't mean to sound too cold and uncaring because it is painfull. I know, I've been through it many times, I understand the pain and confusion but it is a fact of life and another fact of life is you will get over in in a few weeks/months and then find some other little cutie that trips your trigger and you get to hit the 'reset' button and do it all over again.

Don't worry about all this "alpha high status" crap. Just live a good life and get out and do fun things with fun people and you will recover perfectly in a reasonable period of time and will find new loves and new adventures. This is just a part of life.

High status alphas are NOT immune from chicks turning flakey and losing interest and nor are they immune from having their hearts broken when people break up.

What separates the alpha from the beta is the alpha stays in the game and keeps doing fun things with fun people. The beta is mortally wounded and sits in his basement playing video games and moans over the love he once had.