Hi all,

I recently received the news that an old friend of mine will be visiting the town for a few days. During this time, we will have a lot of interactions. I am usually aggressive in my PU attempts, but this one needs a different tactic. (Not because i am emotionally attached to her, but because of who she is) Can you share me your ideas (or any previous links) that can be helpful? I don't want to get her to bed, want her to emotionally get attached to me.

Current Info

- She is 27, like me
- She is single
- I know her through the family (which means i cannot fuck this up). My parents have close ties with hers
- I never approached her before, always treated her like a sister
- She never stated her interest in me before (That's what i believe. I did not know what an IOI was last time i met her, so might be my fault to detect them too)
- Her cousin is also traveling with her (male)
- We will be at a holiday spot, meaning only swimsuits 90% of the time
- She is 7/10 and definitely not a HB
- I have social proof and i am definitely not below her level

i don't understand your post and you have given very limited information, sounds like you want to be her friend, just take her out and have fun and don't physically escalate or indicate any interest, TADAA friend zone and she will be emotionally attached depending on how much fun you have together, now if you want her as a girlfriend (implies sleeping together) then you will have to stop being such a pussy and escalate the situation and close, best way to get her into you is sleep with her

This is the best way to actually fuck it up.

Just be as you are normally. Girls are attracted to man's personality, if you play too many games with her you might fuck it up because you will be concentrating too much on "what's my next step", thus getting into your head too much and thus coming off as weird or wussy or whatnot.

In warm approach I'm usually more direct than in cold approach. I often say that I like the girl as the very first thing after we meet. It takes so much pressure off of me that I can "be myself" and not really care anymore how she perceives me. Works almost always.

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bro sound sall good go for it.

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