wierd thing just happened:

went on a date with a nice girl and went climbing, afterward we got some cocktails.

had some nice texting going on before and i felt like she was really interested. During the date everything went really great, good conversation no awkward silences, i could see that she was having fun.

for some reason though no kissing happened. I'm not really the kind of guy to be making out in public and i gave some hints but she didnt really comply. I figured dont push it and well the date's over now and no intimacy happened.

ten minutes out she's texting me if wanna go out again and if she should organize something for our next date. So for some reason it feels like i have it in the bag but it just needs to evolve (faster).

Any hints on how to subtely advance this without ending up in the friend zone. I'm out of town for the next two weeks, so some time will pass before we next meet.

If you don't kiss her by the 2nd date you will be LGBF'd just move in close smell her hair and say " your hair smells so good, im trying to hard not to kiss you right now" and then look into her eyes. Lock eyes for a sec, if she starts to say something put your finger to her lips and then move in for the kiss. This goes without saying but make sure you have good kino going before hand.

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Eh, some things you just cant rush no matter how good you are. Dont get discouraged after one date, but when you start hitting three and four and she still makes no effort, move on. If you really want to put yourselves in a situation for it to happen, dont pick a so-public place and find a quieter more intimate spot for your next date.

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I've just come off a date today and this same thing has happened to me. I planned to escalate heavily when I got her back to mine. However time flew so fast that logistics ruined it in the end. She does want to see me again, however I'm going to make sure I properly set the frame that i'm not looking for a relationship and want to be single. I'd recommend that you do the same.

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I don't even need directions from you, but I'm gonna get an erection from you.

while i don't advocate NOT escalating on first dates, it s not the end of the world if you didn't. i d say that you can go out with her up to 4 times before going in FZone ( it s my opinion that you NEVER Blow them away at 100% sometime they come back)

on next date remind that if she come out with you again is because she wants You. NO other reason.

escalate when Window of Opportunity opens ( as soon as they open: a kiss on neck out of blue, or whtever you feel) do NOT wait for the end of the night.

unless you are great with PNL you are not going to convince her in doing anything she does not want already... she wants you at 100%.... everytime she open a door and you miss it you lose 30%... if go go for the kiss when maybe a caress is better she will let you know, but at least you played your card well...
if she run away you never had her, if she stay she is yours !

any hints or thoughts on how to keep it going while away for two weeks?

saw her yesterday, parked it at first base; good stuff.

so tomorrow im leaving for two weeks, what is the proper pua tactic to keep the sexual tension high?

You don't necessarily have to escalate on the first date to get a second date but I reckon you're much better off escalating than not escalating. The best way to get a second date is to fuck her on the first date. If you don't escalate you risk her getting bored with you quickly.

You gotta remember some girls WANT to fuck on the first date and if you don't escalate she will be pissed off and the chances of you getting a second date is pretty much zero.

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