hey everyone,

lately an hb has been booty calling me, but we have yet to meet b/c of scheduling conflicts...until later tonight. i've known this hb for years, she's my (female) friend's cousin. we've always talked but we only really started hanging out a few months ago.

the first time we hung out, i made a move but she resisted due to having a boyfriend @ the time. a few days later, she asked to hang out again & i invited her to my place. i f-closed that night. in the following days, she started to become attached, but i was more interested in chasing other women, so we eventually fell off.

months later, she messaged me out of nowhere telling me she missed me & wanted to hang out (she's still w/ her boyfriend). i set up a date & made a move; however, she resisted & gave me the whole "you're a player" & "i have a boyfriend" speech. i didn't f-close that night, i didn't even kiss close.

months later, she's messaging me again & although she's still w/ her boyfriend, he's out of town. last saturday night, she was out w/ some friends & i'm assuming she was drunk. she texts me, blatantly asking to fuck, but i was out & didn't want to go out of my way for her so it didn't happen. tonight we're finally hanging, but i'm afraid that if i make a move, she might pull the same stunt she did last time. i'm relatively new to the game so i'm gonna use this opportunity to practice push-pull. do you guys have any suggestions as to how i could f-close using push-pull tactics if she does resist?

please note that i seduced this hb prior to having any PUA knowledge so i haven't actually used any material on her.

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Mr. Jones

If she calls you a player again, tell her "I'm not a player... YOU'RE the player!" and then at some point play off of it and tell her "sorry, I don;t have one-nighters with players... my feelings might get hurt" then laugh

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El Lobo

you fail for not effing her on that nite.
what a hoe bag this slut is.

@ Lobo82

lol nice, that will be my standard come back for the "you're a player" comment fr. now on, thanks man.

@JuanAntonioB

lol i wanted to f-close that night so perhaps she sensed the desperation & got turned off?

@ Felandro

no worries man, i'm not invested in this hb, it was just convenient & i wanted to practice my push-pull b/c i thought she might give resistance. i'm definitely out there sarging other hbs.

Update

she suggested to go back to my place so we did. i acted distant & she made the move this time. she gave lmr & gave me the whole "i have a boyfriend" excuse so i executed a freeze out & it worked like a charm, i f-closed. thank you all for your feedback, i appreciate them.

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Mr. Jones