Hello,

Last saturday i picked up a girl in the club and managed to get a k & n close. it took me a lot of time, mainly cause this was a arrogant type of girl who can get a lot of guys.

Last sunday i called to set up a day 2, but every time when i named a place and date, she was'nt availlable, and when she named a date & place, i wasnt availlable. Outcome; it's most likely i wont see her within the next 4 weeks, cause i'm going on holiday in 1,5 weeks.

So my question is, is there a possible way to keep the interest high with the use of only calling and text messaging?

By forward thank you,

Visitor Q

ps, sorry for the bad english, i did my best

anyone?

hey VisitorQ,

i'm afraid i don't have an answer to your inquiry; however, i am facing the same problem, which is trying to maintain interest via text/phone game b/c scheduling conflicts are making it difficult to set up a day 2. i'm sure there's a post in here somewhere about text/phone game (i'm looking more for text b/c i hardly have time to sit & chat on the phone). if i find it, i'll make sure to let you know & hopefully you do the same lol. good luck man.

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No there isn't a way to keep the interest high with only calling and txt. You have to be an interesting person living an interesting life in the real physical world.

Well maybe that was a little overly negative so let me put it into perspective. If she is living an interesting life in the real physical world and she is around interesting guys in the flesh, then no amount of phone/txt game is going to hold her interest and why should it?

On the otherhand if she is a boring, pathetic, female AFC that just plays video games all day and you are the most interesting guy she has met in the flesh for the past 2 years then maybe you stand a chance when you get back.

My advice is always get out and do fun things with fun people all the time. Always be gaming other chicks as you find them and don't wait for any one chick that is only a "what if?"

When you get back from your trip if you happen to run into her, then start gaming and flirting and talking with her and see where things go then.

She has no reason to wait for you at this time.

thank's for the responses

I'll just let it be for what it is, and game on. maybe if i run into her after my holiday i'll try again.

VisitorQ

it is a very tough thing to do ACTIVELY..

to ACTIVELY keep things highly interesting with her, you have to have an interesting txt convo EVERYTIME, PHONECALLS must be terrific to where she get's something out of it after everycall..

how about PASSIVELY keep things interesting.. it requires less work.. let her feel like your a fun guy and that she's missing out.. build it up so that she's thinking that when you guys do hang out it'll be fun.

like someone said go out and have an interesting life..

Do fun stuff and let her NOTICE it..

ur going on vacation right? take crazy pictures of you at the beach, drinking, with other girls, with you boys, site seeing.. make sure that these pictures portray 'FUN'..

im assuming you're gonna talk to her through txt.. how about facebook?
put up those pictures, make one your profile pic, get her to look at your page by hitting up her wall ocassionaly asking how her how she's doing (it show's your thinking of her).. she's gonna reply with "good, how r u?"..

which you can reply (either on the wall or randomly reply through txt) that you are having an amazing time.. and that your about to go do something else at the moment so you have to go..

just seem like your on the go and be random with your conversations with her.. (random in the sense of there's no pattern when you're gonna txt her)

make one txt be about you experiencing something and that she should be there to witness it.. that she'd love it..

randomly txt her with a question about herself..

this will keep her interested until you can finally pysically see her..

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This phrase sounds great!

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