She is a 10,

We were supposed to go out tonight, she sent a text: I am the most unreliable person, my friends mum died and shes going for funeral, I have to go baby sit cat and house, I am not gonna make any promisses anymore and just live in the moment,, xx

I was thinkin of replying: Wont be the same without me.

Suggestions?

with flakes I have started to tend towards saying nothing. but if you must, here's one idea:

I liked something I heard a guy say once (can't remember so can't give credit)
'ok holler when you get clear'

Respond with "cool story bro"

lol jk

At the end of the day who cares about the response? Just try to lead an interesting life and have something fun and exciting always going on. If she hangs out, that's cool, and if she flakes, you got cool shit going on and it's not a big deal.

This isn't a tactic... it really is how you should lead your life. Eventually that will shine through and it will be clear that you lead a life of abundance.

Sitting around trying to think of some really witty response is really just a huge waste of time. If you had a number of gorgeous chicks fighting for your attention, would you still be sitting around trying to figure out something cool to text back? Probably not....

Thanks for the replies dudes.

speedybanana I agree with you, totally. I have absolutely no probelms meeting people. The thing is sometimes you meet some people that you just can't let go easy, the flip your switch . Not because of the way they look, but the whole package is out standing.

I sort of believe being mute is strong and simply the second best thing to do.

It means a lot of things.

First best thing would be to say "something" and the flaker will think,"fuck I have to fix this", then she texts back for reschadlue.

That would be advanced psychology

Just say, ''Sure. I'm sorry to hear.''

Make her realise how it doesn't affect you in the least.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

This is good. Thanks