There's this super cute chick at my work. She is fleunt spanish and little english while i am slowly learning spanish. She has a husband but my friend at work who can speak spanish well openly flirts with her often. Now i got a few iois from her early on but i didn't know how to respond since my spanish was so weak so i just kinda ignored her. Now i made good friends with the people who work around her and i always joke around with them while i still mostly ignored her. Now my friend who flirts with her recently told her about my attraction towards her. She still laughs at the stupid spanish phrases i put together and i do notice she watches somewhat. I wat to flirt with her and when i try and i get a little too playful with my words towards her she gets serious and says no in soft and slow manner where i always back off. Help dudes i know some intrest is there, should i just try to force a convo with her or what?

DON'T DO IT

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What the guy above said.

Don't try to cross some boundaries. They are there for your own safety.

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yeah, it's probably not a good idea to go after her..

BUT... if you really wanna give it a try then maybe try this:

so language is the obvious barrier, so try to put the spotlight on it.. use it to your advantage for getting a conversation with her..

Point at something and ask her "como se dice eso en espanol?" (how do you say that in spanish?)

she'll tell you.. and you try to pronounce it, if it's easy, act like your struggling with it.. she'll feel like she must help you pronounce it right.. (making the convo emotionally relevant to her).

from there, point at something else and say "Y eso?" (and that? )and keep playing this little game..

be playful with it, smile, do light kino, and let your body language do the REAL TALKING!!

she'll find it fun talking with you.. and you'll notice her engaging you..

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first off i just wanna say that I am not expecting to get laid by her. She has this ogre sized husband that drops & picks her up at work everyday. That is basically an impossible barrier. Plus she also has a kid with him. I am not naive i know i have a close to a zero chance with. Even if i had the green light from her I'm not sure if i will be able to cross that barrier myself... but i wouldn't rule it out she is extremely cute. I want to flirt with her to improve my game and build my confidence( I would feel like an exceptional badass effectively gaming the hottest girl at work). I am having friendly competition with my friend at work, to see who can flirt with her better just for bragging rights. He's obviously winning and I am not cool with that. So...

@kastle
I'll try that i like the pretend to struggle part and i guess the only route i have is to let the body say what the mouth can't with this chick right?