| If you want to give off confidence in nightgame, then go DIRECT.
Walk up to her, maintaining eye contact the whole way (unless she is facing the other way, in which case rest your wrist on her shoulder and then turn her around to face you, whilst smiling / smirking, and then maintaining eye contact)
It's usually relatively loud in most clubs, so the best way to deliver your opener, and continue the conversation, is to move to her left ear as though to whisper, but talk normally or project as much as necessary so that you can be heard clearly over the music.
"Hi, don't take this the wrong way, but you look fucking sexy and I want to get to know you. What's your name?"
That's all you really need to say.
If she hears you correctly and stays there, accepts the compliment with a smile, giggles or blushes, or anything other than moving away from you / turning her back, then she probably likes you and that is a green light to begin immediately escalating.
Whilst you're whispering in her ear, it's completely natural to touch the small of her back with your hand. You can keep your hand there as the conversation continues, moving closer in so that your back is arched - with your crotch close to hers, but with your head further back to maintain a comfortable distance, maintaining eye contact, and switching between left and right ears. The left ear is for emotional content, such as your direct opener, dirty talk, something funny, etc. The right ear is for normal, logical stuff, fluff talk, where she's from, what her logistics are for the night, etc. By dynamically switching between ears, you pass past her face, which you can "accidentally" brush with your face, maintain eye contact and create multiple almost-kiss moments.
Once you have opened, she remains there and is interested, have exchanged a few things, maybe made her laugh, giggle or blush once, figured out what the friends / logistics situation is, try and move her as soon as possible to somewhere where you can be together, like a quieter area to sit down in, or an outside smoking area. Form an O with your middle finger and thumb, and place that around her wrist, so you're not grabbing her, and lead her, without looking back, after you've explained you want to go somewhere quieter.
From here, you're basically in the same place as midgame in daygame - you have her name and some basic stuff, and you can now have a normal conversation. Conversations in clubs tend to at least start higher energy than on the street, but not necessarily - as long as you know how to connect with someone, you can do it however you feel works with your personality. The important thing is to be having fun with her, and continuing the escalation process. Sitting down with legs touching, arm around her, caressing her hand, etc should all happen as quick as possible - you can get to this stage within 5-10 minutes, as long as you take every act of her compliance as a green light to progress a step further.
The key to pulling an SNL, apart from handling logistics, which can be a totally unlucky game killer if you don't figure them out early, is leveraging her attraction to get her to qualify about specific traits - importantly (1) free of inhibitions / social pressure (2) spontaneous (3) adventurous (4) sexual. The quicker you set a dominant frame and get her to show you these qualities, through storytelling, asking questions, and role-play, the easier it will be to create that vibe that you 2 are together, having your own crazy adventures, regardless of what others think, and that'll make it much simpler to extract and close that night. _________________ SEX Technique Material http://bit.ly/iFdky0
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