Your response?

I don't always agree with mystery or MM in general... but this is tried and true.

"well let's make this fair. You look like a fair minded girl, how about you buy ME a drink, and I buy the second round."

that's equality baby! lol if she says no, or that she's broke, there's a god chance she's just fishing for free drinks. you can tease her about that. if she reacts poorly I usually just dip. I dont wanna take home a girl that see's me as a paycheck.

Sounds good, I'll try that. But what if I'm not drinking that night? I'm trying to go out sober more.

Get her to buy you a coke?? You wanna just show her that your not doing something for nothing

exactly. you can make her bark like a seal, or meow like a cat. Tell her to jump in a circle 3 times, hop on one leg, sing the alphabet... anything... key is, she isn't getting something for free. since you're making her do something, you're DHVing. try buying a fake mustache, carry it around with you and tell her you'll buy her a drink if she wears it lol (feild test for that one will be posted as soon as I buy a fake mustache lmao).

I would point out, say something like:

"well, im not in the habit of just hading out freebies so im going to need you to (insert what you want her to do here)."

if she's giving you a bunch of IOI's and you're confident enough you can even tell her to give you a lap dance first... this technique is honestly a beautiful thing.. I use it all the time, I've had instant K to number closes (in that order) lol. have fun with it

lol, I literally dated a broke girl with no job. She was freaking hot!

Yeah I bought her drinks. This was after when I was in comfort with her and finding out more about her. She really didn't have a job. Only way she got money was from her parents.

If you get far along in comfort where a girl is telling you stuff otherwise she would be a shamed off, you can buy them drinks. Too early, it's a bad move.