Hello everyone! I would like to give you a glimpse of where I am coming from. For the past million years i've been experiencing social anxiety. I could not talk to people or be in public places without having a panic attack. It was ridiculous. I finally made my way to college. This scared the crap out of me, literally. I am 21 now and still a virgin. Never really had any relationship because of my anxiety. After a couple of years of being sick and tired due to this mental health issue I decided to take action. I began meditating to reduce the panic attacks I would have in public or talking to people. That finally paid off. I practiced by saying hi to everyone and after awhile i found out people are really friendly. Now I can talk to guys, made new friends in college and whole lots. With this in the past I want to start dating and meeting new girls. I met this girl a couple of months ago. I was really shy at first and barely talked to her. I would see her while working and we would always exchange stares or a simple hello. A friend of mine (a girl) told me to ask her out and that I had that i am an attractive fellow. I finally worked the nerve to start conversations with her. I found out that she likes harry potter (yay me 2!). I asked her out to go see the final installment of Harry Potter. She said yes. Now heres the tough part. Since I have never dated before I am in a total complete loss. I don't know what to do or what to say. We will be in the train together for at least 1 hour before actually gettin to the city. All my friends keep telling me to be myself, harder than said because this is my first time. I am really nervous. I just need pointers on making this date successful and create an attraction between me and her. I hear teasing a girl is a good way of flirting too. But still. thanks!

Personally I think your going to be spending too much time with her on your first date.

Anyways it will be a good learning experience. For her be the entertainer, the listener, the leader, the PUA.

Topics of conversation could be, her friends, your friends, her future aspirations, your future aspirations, the celebrities she fancies, celebrities you fancy, the food she likes, the foods you like, music etc also engage in one or two provocative arguments where she will not agree with you. And good ol pick up techniques like kino, negging etc


Keep things fun, light and enjoyable.

Be present don't over-think, if you run out of things to say dont worry either just relax and appreciate your surroundings. She is just another human-being with possibly as many anxieties as you have.

Whatever you do DO NOT TALK ABOUT YOUR PAST MENTAL ISSUES AS YOU WILL FREAK HER OUT AND LOOK LIKE A LOSER.

Have fun, let us know what happens.