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 Post subject: Picking up at work
PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2011 9:08 pm 
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Ok so theres a woman at work im interested in, good looks seems nice enough. So i've been joking around a bit with her making her laugh but I want to move forward. I dont have a number yet, and I guess that would be my goal. But because she works in the same building as me I've had some doubts, what if things go sour for whatever reason, then it gets weird.

Any advice for me as far as how to game her?

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Yeah its just a risk u take, it can go wrong, it can even go horribly wrong! But for the same point is can go good.

The qeustion is do you want to take that risk?

And for gaming her, i would recommend takin her number like:

You're a reall fun girl, you should give me your number, or whatever comes up in your mind!

Then i would take the gaming outside of work and keep it casual AT work.

Goodluck!


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I personally wouldn't do it, but the choice is yours ;) good luck

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im a firm believer of keeping your workplaces seperate and professional... look at it like this... you have 2 workplaces. your job (where you make your money) and the rest of the world (where you use PU lol) in contrast it just seems like an ok deal to me lol. PU in the workplace never ends well.
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i'm in a similar situation...i'm very new to the game, and there's this girl i like at work too...tomorrow is my last shift at that job, and she finishes her shift just as i start mine. we've had a bit of general chit-chat and i get the impression that she's into me too, but i've only worked 1 shift with her so i'm still a bit unsure! i'm tempted to just ask her out for a drink or something as she's leaving and i'm arriving...after all, i'm probs never going to see her again if she says no! is this just the thinking of an afc tho? any advice??
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i'm in a similar situation...i'm very new to the game, and there's this girl i like at work too...tomorrow is my last shift at that job, and she finishes her shift just as i start mine. we've had a bit of general chit-chat and i get the impression that she's into me too, but i've only worked 1 shift with her so i'm still a bit unsure! i'm tempted to just ask her out for a drink or something as she's leaving and i'm arriving...after all, i'm probs never going to see her again if she says no! is this just the thinking of an afc tho? any advice??
why not? just ask for her number, walk up, explain it's your last day. tell her you think she's cool and would like to keep in touch.

then you're free to ask her out for drinks whenever you feel like instead of rushing yourself.
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The answer is based on whether its worth it. If the benefit of going for it is worth the risk of things going badly later on, then go for it. My take? If you want a relationship, the workplace is fine as a place to look. A random hookup? Eh...may not be as wise.
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nothing good can come of it.

let's say you make her your girlfriend...

who wants to work every day with their girlfriend?

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