Hi all, im really new at this but after reading "the game" i have gotten really interested in "the game" although i really dont have a clue of where to start, so i could use some good advice here, i would also like to learn the "mystery method" but would it be negative to read about other methods as well?

really hope you guys can help me, i want this so bad! - valdemar

start with the following:

1. Open girls (no matter how they look)
2. Have a fun/teasing conversations, where you are NOT NEEDY!!
3. Each time you end the conversation and say goodbye
4. Everytime, end with the following question "When will I see you again?" You let her answer.

Hi mate.

You ask to start your PU career after reading 'The Game'. Excellent, i would say: the adventure start completely with.... YOU.

You want to learn the Mystery Method? Then read the mystery method, go out and do the mystery method. You only read half? Still, go out and do something you think might be working. dont do it once, do it always.

Things will start to change, you will get successes at some parts, fails at other parts. Learn from both, let your success and your fails be a source of your confidence. You failed, but hell, you wanted something and you went after it! Let that be the core of your existence.

Learning the Mystery Method ( or any other freaking method) get you there? Nope it wont. Even my advice will not get you there in the next month. Then what will it do? It will get you started, as you requested and where you should start.

Besides, one more thing: before you log onto your computer to ask a question on this board of something you have read, go out and try your interpretation. Then come and ask what went wrong .

We like people who go out and try stuff. We dont like textbook people, who want to look all guru 'because they read and fully understand 100 dating books'.

Ask questions about experiences, then you shall receive answers that will actually teach you something.

Lots of luck!

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If you would like to begin using mystery's material it is not a bad place to start, however there are some pitfalls with it, and I personally tried to use it when i first started out with minimal success.

For a book to get you to start thinking in a way that's going to get you success with girls, I would recommend The Attraction Code by Vin Decarlo, I also would recommend the Blueprint decoded as these were the catalysts that perpetuated myself into the success I wanted.

The best way to learn is by doing which everyone will tell you, but with the knowledge from the sources I listed you will get a lot more out of your experience.

Okay thanks alot for the answers! but after what you have experienced does it work best by opening by my self, or with a friend?

Open by yourself, one of you will end up talking much more than the other. That doesn't mean you can't have a friend come into the set later to wing you, or take care of obstacles. That said, it all works differently for different people, you and a wing may be able to open a set together very successfully.

Ye okay, but my idé was just to have a friend helping me, getting me to aproach beacuse i have AA :/

i'll tell you one thing..

what you will experience is not called an Anxiety.. it's an Excitement.

you're body get's excited, it gets a rush of adrenaline...

learn how to direct that excitement and use it constructively when approaching women.. embrace it! love the excitement!

in my journey, i've learned to use it as an indicator for an approach. i'll casually peruse the mall letting "ok" girls pass me by.. i could approach but i'd rather not.. they dont do it for me looks wise.

but when i see that HOT BABE! my excitement level goes through the roof.. im not anxious.. im excited.. and i have to go talk to her.. so i embrace the feeling and i jump head first with the approach..

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